My wife and I seem to have to perfect kinkiness compatibility.
Have you ever turned someone from vanilla to kinky?
10/18/2012
I don't typically try to change people. I figure they're either into it or not.
10/20/2012
Ive corrupted a few people
10/20/2012
I'm helping my beau get more into his kink-side, and though my sub was already kinky when we started playing, I indulge kinks no one else did.
10/20/2012
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I have brought out the kinky streak in lots of people but I think it's more about discovering what you consider kinky and pushing boundaries rather than "turning" them.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
How was your journey in doing so? Were you successful? Discuss below!
10/20/2012
I turned my husband from vanilla to kinky. It only took 4 years of marriage, but it's been a fun process.
10/20/2012
i've been with people that it was there in them, they just needed to know it was ok to explore it and needed to learn how to communicate.
i don't think someone can be turned. only encouraged. though i think we are all kinksters at heart
i don't think someone can be turned. only encouraged. though i think we are all kinksters at heart
10/20/2012
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I have been turned from vanilla to kinky.. I always like the thought of being tied up etc but all of my partners were all about themeselves. I now have someone in my life that loves kink and he has been showing me the ropes literally and I'm not disappointed at all... They say change is good and that isn't a lie..
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
How was your journey in doing so? Were you successful? Discuss below!
10/21/2012
I have "turned" a former vanilla
10/21/2012
I haven't turned anyone.
10/27/2012
Hmmm...I put "other". I mean, I have definitely had partners that have identified as "vanilla" coming into the relationship and "kinky" going out, but I don't think I "turned" them. I think they just hadn't discovered that aspect to their sexuality yet. If some one just isn't interested in something, I don't think any amount of experimentation or begging or pleading is going to turn them.
10/27/2012
I haven't, but that's because I haven't had to! Kinks from the beginning
10/28/2012
I have yet to have that problem.
10/28/2012
It has been my marriage-long pursuit to turn my 'terminally' vanilla partner to a brighter shade of kinky. So far we've made a lot of progress - but to many kinksters out there - we are still pretty vanilla - we're doing the best we can!
10/28/2012
*I'm* pretty vanilla, lol.
10/28/2012
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That sounds delicious, lol! (The milkshake, not your husband. You can keep him!) :p
Originally posted by
CASpookygirl
My husband.. he was a vanilla milkshake with vanilla sammich cookies mixed in before he met me
10/28/2012
My ex was getting into it when we broke up. I sometimes wonder if he'll try it with his next girl.
10/31/2012
I've turned a girl who didn't even know there was more to sexual relations that just intercourse, into a bondage lover
12/08/2012
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my husband ;D
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
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12/14/2012
Have done so and now Im working on another.
12/14/2012
You can't really "turn" people, can you? If they know about a lot of kinks and have never had an interest it's highly unlikely they'll ever find an interest unless they happen upon a previously unknown kink that finally flips their switch. You'll generally have more luck just teaching people who have no idea about most any kinky stuff about it, and that's not so much "turning" as informing.
12/14/2012
Somewhat. I've slept with three guys so far. In two of them, they had kinky inclinations already and I sort of just exposed them to it. The third was pretty much totally vanilla. I tried continually to get him more into the things I liked, and he did a little bit, but for the most part not really. It was okay though, because the sex wasn't bad anyway.
12/14/2012
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We were both kinda vanilla but as we are exploring we are getting much more kinky. It's all just so much fun
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
How was your journey in doing so? Were you successful? Discuss below!
12/14/2012
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