Help out a newbie?

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Help out a newbie?

Kaleb Kaleb
So I'm a pansexual trans guy, and I'm recently discovering that I'm pretty into the bdsm scene as a sub. Things I know I like are restraints, gagging, whipping, and wax play. I want to make sure I have fun but am as safe as possible. Any advice for a newcomer?
05/26/2012
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Badass Badass
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always simply be careful, take precaution, and strap up!
05/26/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
Some other things to keep in mind is that you should always discuss boundaries and what you expect to happen BEFORE you do anything and that you should always have a safe word/gesture. Best of luck!

Also, make sure you only do this with people that YOU trust. If you ever don't feel safe, don't feel pressured to stay in that situation. As a sub YOU'RE in control of the situation, even though it seems that the dom is.
05/26/2012
KinkyKatiya KinkyKatiya
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaleb
So I'm a pansexual trans guy, and I'm recently discovering that I'm pretty into the bdsm scene as a sub. Things I know I like are restraints, gagging, whipping, and wax play. I want to make sure I have fun but am as safe as possible. Any ...
A big part of BDSM is Trust! you must trust your partner and always communicate you limits as well as curiosities
05/26/2012
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