How vanilla is your sex?

FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Being rough is extremely exciting, but how often do you really turn the kink on, vs how often do you have normal romantic sex?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
0% / Never. I'm not turned on unless it's rough!
MK434 , mastersonv , novanilla , sillylilkitten
4  (4%)
25%, I'm rarely ever vanilla, more kink the better!
underHim , CuteDee , nosrslylol , SubmissiveFeminist , pinkpottergirl , MistressDandelion , pokefan15 , DustBunny , ellejay , gsfanatic , VelvetDragon , CadmiumKitty , Entropy , xOhxSoxScandalousx , humblepie , hall5885 , Ghost , purple123456789 , BloodHound , kendra30752 , Boyqueen , MGDavicnigirl , Kitka , TheirPet , KLu769 , elli , ohsnaprawr , Oxygen99 , butts , Kayletta Jade , Strider , chort , SavingMyself , higs
34  (30%)
50% I try to keep my sex balanced between kink and vanilla
FruityCloudPuff , dks210 , ScarletFox , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Mia.The.Wonder.Slut , Stinkytofu10 , Loriandhubby , Missmarc , cburger , BurntToast , blackadeezee , momma22js , Catch Star , spnkegrl , LavenderSkies , jjdd , EastCoast36 , Incendiaire , hotcherry , volpe bianca , panthercat23 , mr115393 , Living Doll , phoenixfire , Cynoc , wwwww , Miss L
27  (24%)
75% I'm almost always vanilla with a tiny bit of kink on occasion
Gunsmoke , Peggi , Melan!e , Honeybee , sasweetheart89 , Kate , Castielskitten , bayosgirl , calliope , BlooJay , ghalik , SJ88 , married with children , Lickable Lollie , curious kitten , Bex1331 , Hallmar82 , Terri69 , Azule , Mwar , Bullfroggy and Rose , gloomybear , oopsy , Cal , sexxxkitten , Stagger13 , JG24FanUK , Sally Forth , SilverMinxxx , xMila , sumie , amplified to rock , pyratess , PropertyOfPotter , AliMc , Leather & Lace , Marie Hanna , rockblenny , gehuwd , Molly Adams , leanright69 , EmuLove
42  (38%)
100% / Always. I haven't tried any kinky sex yet
deltalima , plaidvulva , lustylusty , unfulfilled , Noelle
5  (4%)
Total votes: 112
Poll is closed
04/01/2012
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm not sure how you define as kink. I think using toys is lightly kinky - and we use them all the time. But getting away from toys is rare for us. We don't do spanking or bondage - so I'd say, mostly vanilla.
04/01/2012
underHim underHim
We very rarely have sex others would not consider kinky, but some still consider oral and anal sex kinky so it depends on how you define it.
04/01/2012
Melan!e Melan!e
My partner and I are up for trying anything at least once! I think eventually we may explore the world of kink a little more but for now... I'd say mostly vanilla, again depending on your definition of kink though.
04/01/2012
nosrslylol nosrslylol
Kink is fun!
04/01/2012
Castielskitten Castielskitten
we put a little kink in every now and then ^^
04/01/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by Melan!e
My partner and I are up for trying anything at least once! I think eventually we may explore the world of kink a little more but for now... I'd say mostly vanilla, again depending on your definition of kink though.
Essentially any form of dominating, aggressive role playing or bondage.
04/01/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by FruityCloudPuff
Being rough is extremely exciting, but how often do you really turn the kink on, vs how often do you have normal romantic sex?
New boyfriend doesn't like it rough or kinky.
04/01/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
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Originally posted by nosrslylol
Kink is fun!
Very much so! :]
04/02/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Almost always vanilla, but I'm not complaining...
04/02/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by BlooJay
Almost always vanilla, but I'm not complaining...
Sex is sex.
04/02/2012
dks210 dks210
About 50/50 I'd say. I like variety.
04/04/2012
married with children married with children
we mix in alittle kink every now and then
04/04/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Hardly ever vanilla. Maybe the first time with a new partner, but I like to dive right in!
04/05/2012
curious kitten curious kitten
Not really into kink, but nothing wrong with a little bit of surprise once in awhile.
04/05/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
Hardly ever vanilla. Maybe the first time with a new partner, but I like to dive right in!
I put 50 / 50 for myself, but I'm honestly more kinky as well. I try to be vanilla and romantic every now and then, but kink is just so much more of a turn on.
04/05/2012
plaidvulva plaidvulva
All kink all the time. B)
04/06/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by plaidvulva
All kink all the time. B)
Really? Because you picked the complete opposite in the poll. xD
04/06/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by SubmissiveFeminist
Hardly ever vanilla. Maybe the first time with a new partner, but I like to dive right in!
Whooo! ;D
04/13/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by FruityCloudPuff
Being rough is extremely exciting, but how often do you really turn the kink on, vs how often do you have normal romantic sex?
I'd say half/half for us.
04/13/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
I wish it was more kink
04/13/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I wish I could get my wife more into kink. I'd prefer 75% kink to 25% vanilla, but 50/50 would get a good compromise.
04/14/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
I think often "vanilla" is in the eye of the beholder, and it is certainly NOT a dirty word. Some people are turned on my gentle sex with little "kink" aspect and I totally respect that, IF they are open and understanding of people who have and enjoy other experiences in bed.

Some people think oral sex is "kinky." I think it's a given, for the most part. But, some people only do it on occasion or never.

I'm not going to rate the percentage of our sex that I think is "not vanilla." We have a very busy and varied sex life. Sometimes there's some bondage and light to moderate impact play, usually there are toys (if I'm going to come, there are toys...) sometimes there is an element of Ravishment Play. Sometimes it's a quickie with Missionary PIV (after oral sex, and oral in the middle we always have oral sex) and some work to get me to come and then when he comes, we're pretty much finished. We did that this morning, then he went to the bathroom, and I had to come again. He was laughing, because when he came back in the room, I said, "I know you really had to go. But, I wasn't quite finished. I needed an other one." He said, "I know I heard you from the bathroom." Usually, we continue with all kinds of sexual play and often some anal sex after I come, but I have my period, and this morning was just a quickie.

It's usually varied. No percentages for us.
04/14/2012
Terri69 Terri69
I wish it was more 75% kink and 25% vanilla
04/14/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by Terri69
I wish it was more 75% kink and 25% vanilla
That's how it is for me, but we try to be 50/50.
04/14/2012
Azule Azule
Usually about 75% vanilla, but it depends on what you would consider vanilla since we're just pretty weird overall.
04/14/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
It's been tending towards kink, but that's mostly just from a lack of time on both our parts, and since we both prefer kinky.... And yea, I've heard kinky defined as anything from girl on top to hardcore BDSM, it's a tough term to pin down.
04/17/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by FruityCloudPuff
Being rough is extremely exciting, but how often do you really turn the kink on, vs how often do you have normal romantic sex?
It's about half and half for us.
04/18/2012
Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
I'd say we're 60/40.
04/18/2012
Mwar Mwar
I'd prefer more, but I have to get him into it.
04/18/2012
Total posts: 74
Unique posters: 61