How vanilla is your sex?

we're pretty kinky

With my beau, it's more vanilla with mild to moderate kink. Neither of us are subs at all, and he's only mildly kinky to begin with. But when both are dom-oriented and are both turned off by subbing, it can get a little complicated.

Thankfully, I enjoy bottoming, and can keep my mouth shut to keep from domming from the bottom. He enjoys the sensory play, the spanking, the bondage, and the pictures, and he's not into dirty talk, so it hasn't been a huge issue.

With my sub, it's almost all kinky, unless one of us is too tired for being creative, or is just in the mood for being gentler, since the kink often involves CBT and humiliation.

Mostly vanilla!

I voted 25% because it was probably closest, but I think we're closer to about 5% vanilla sex. If that.

we almost always have at least ONE kinky aspect to sex, usually roughness/spanking/cho king/toys, sometimes much more!

All depends on the definition of kink...I'm sure we'd be more vanilla for some, more kink for others. Either way, it's perfect for us

There's a little sprinkling of kink involved whenever we have sex.

I enjoy vanilla very rarely maybe once or twice a year but we truly enjoy kinky.

Today my partner said we should have sex today without any physical force and then we debated what that would even be like. We tried for a few minutes and neither of us was into it so we just started pushing each other around and quickly both became happier.

I really couldn't vote on this one because it honestly depends on my partner and what we are in the mood for at any given moment.

It depends on who I'm with - my personal tastes lean more toward about 40/60 in favor of kinkiness, but my last boyfriend was sort of unadventurous, so our sex was about 75% vanilla.

I wouldn't saying we have kinky sex every time, but we probably have vanilla sex less than 25% of the time. For us, rough sex is romantic and every time we have sex it's "making love".