How vanilla is your sex?

Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
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Originally posted by gsfanatic
It's been tending towards kink, but that's mostly just from a lack of time on both our parts, and since we both prefer kinky.... And yea, I've heard kinky defined as anything from girl on top to hardcore BDSM, it's a tough term to pin down.
I agree. I feel kink is any type of domination role playing. Anything that involves some form of force during sex and isn't just peaceful penis in vagina.
04/18/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
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Originally posted by Mwar
I'd prefer more, but I have to get him into it.
Good luck then. :]
04/18/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
my bf has latley just wanted to be romantic which i find great but im all for kinky sex too
04/18/2012
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
theres nothing more boring than vanilla.
04/19/2012
Contributor: oopsy oopsy
Wish I was more kink....*sign*
04/20/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
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Originally posted by oopsy
Wish I was more kink....*sign*
Is your partner not into it?
04/20/2012
Contributor: TheCleansing TheCleansing
It's admittedly pretty vanilla right now. Kind of amazed at the current levels of feedback though. I thought Eden would be much kinkier.
04/20/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
Quote:
Originally posted by TheCleansing
It's admittedly pretty vanilla right now. Kind of amazed at the current levels of feedback though. I thought Eden would be much kinkier.
I thought the same.
04/22/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I'm 75% vanilla. Probably more like 90% vanilla.
04/23/2012
Contributor: blackadeezee blackadeezee
It depends on the day.
04/28/2012
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
I'm about 25% with a rapid decline to 0% vanilla. Can there be negative vanilla sex? I hope so.
04/28/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
95% vanilla
04/28/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
Quote:
Originally posted by Entropy
I'm about 25% with a rapid decline to 0% vanilla. Can there be negative vanilla sex? I hope so.
*chuckles* It's good sometimes! For romance. :3
04/28/2012
Contributor: momma22js momma22js
My hubs is okay with some kink but he really is a romantic at heart so we do a balance so each gets what they want
04/29/2012
Contributor: Sally Forth Sally Forth
My sex is about 75% vanilla. My fantasies are about 75% kinky.
05/12/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by FruityCloud
Being rough is extremely exciting, but how often do you really turn the kink on, vs how often do you have normal romantic sex?
I don't really understand the whole "vanilla sex" thing. Our sex is just sex--whatever we're in the mood for. We don't really put a label on it or follow the "try to be the kinkiest" trend. I have a kinky side and have a more relaxed side. It really depends on the day so I can't really sit down and percentage out what I'm in the mood for the most. It varies greatly.
05/12/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by FruityCloud
Being rough is extremely exciting, but how often do you really turn the kink on, vs how often do you have normal romantic sex?
Half and half for us.
05/14/2012
Contributor: jjdd jjdd
I like to get rough but with most of the guys I've dated, we haven't gotten to the point of getting really kinky
07/10/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I'd say we are 85% vanilla.
07/10/2012
Contributor: MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
The OP was a little hard for me to figure out. Kink and roughness are two different things.

We consider ourselves very kinky. We swing, we do a lot of things most couples wouldn't ever consider, etc. Rough sex is part of our play, but it isn't a requirement for us to get off.
07/10/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
My partner and I are mostly kinky, but the occasional vanilla cuddly time is nice.
07/10/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
We like a lot of kink, not necessarily all rough stuff, but we're certainly not vanilla most of the time.
07/10/2012
Contributor: EastCoast36 EastCoast36
Voted 50%, but honestly it's much closer to 75% vanilla.
07/10/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I think often "vanilla" is in the eye of the beholder, and it is certainly NOT a dirty word. Some people are turned on my gentle sex with little "kink" aspect and I totally respect that, IF they are open and understanding of ... more
I agree! Vanilla is in the eye of the beholder. Anal, oral, and anything other then missionary is considered kink to some people.

We have a varied sex life that doesn't get boring.
07/10/2012
Contributor: LLmama LLmama
Quote:
Originally posted by EastCoast36
Voted 50%, but honestly it's much closer to 75% vanilla.
lol! I agree!
07/10/2012
Contributor: MK434 MK434
I'm not into romance when it comes to sex!
07/10/2012
Contributor: hotcherry hotcherry
Maybe 50/50
07/10/2012
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
never
07/10/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
75%, still trying to get my man more into it.
09/30/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
Somewhere in the middle, though it could have more kink for me at times.
10/01/2012