I could become addicted to this..... Thoughts??

Contributor: Tightgirl2013 Tightgirl2013
Tightgirl2013
Last night my husband and I decided to try some bondage play. Once things started I made him the submissive. Things went in a direction they never have and I ended up fucking his ass with everything I could.... My fingers, vibrators, even the bottle of lube. He seemed to enjoy it and afterwards even shared what things I did he liked the best. But now I am worried .... Maybe I liked it too much. It's all I can think about. Should I chaulk it up to just another experience together or push for more? I want to use a strap on!
10/03/2013
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Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
If it's something you're both interested in, that's great! Whenever my husband and I try something new that we enjoy, my mind always races as well! I would first make sure that it's something your husband is interested in and willing to explore with you. If it is, you need to make sure you're only using safe items. Anything without a flared base could potentially slip inside of him, causing an unpleasant trip to the emergency room. Your fingers are a great place to start, but using the lube bottle is dangerous, and the vibe could be as well if it doesn't have the flared base. Take a look at some of the anal toys together and see if there's anything he's interested in. Make sure he's comfortable with all of this and then take the next step. Just always make sure you use products that are designed for and safe for anal use!
10/03/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Like anything new and really enjoyable it will be on your mind for quite some time. It's probably ok till one of you doesn't want to engage in pegging anymore. Might be months or years or never.
10/03/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
sounds like a great time. there are worse things for you to be addicted to. you may want to look into pegging (penetrating him with a strap on) and discussing it with your hubby.
10/03/2013
Contributor: Tightgirl2013 Tightgirl2013
He says he enjoyed it. And I kept asking him during if he was ok. I didn't want to overstep my boundaries.... But I enjoyed it so much it's all I can think about. If I try to initiate again so soon will he run??
10/03/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
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Originally posted by Tightgirl2013
He says he enjoyed it. And I kept asking him during if he was ok. I didn't want to overstep my boundaries.... But I enjoyed it so much it's all I can think about. If I try to initiate again so soon will he run??
talk to him about it. i am sure he would be into it if he knew how excited you were.
10/04/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by Tightgirl2013
He says he enjoyed it. And I kept asking him during if he was ok. I didn't want to overstep my boundaries.... But I enjoyed it so much it's all I can think about. If I try to initiate again so soon will he run??
No one can know that other than you. Talk with him about how it made you feel, and make sure if he's comfortable with it that you have anal safe items to use.
10/04/2013
Contributor: Miss L Miss L
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Originally posted by Tightgirl2013
Tightgirl2013
Last night my husband and I decided to try some bondage play. Once things started I made him the submissive. Things went in a direction they never have and I ended up fucking his ass with everything I could.... My fingers, vibrators, ... more
I'd say it's an addiction when it takes over your life - i.e. you can't go to work b/c you're too busy fucking hubby in the ass. If you like it and he likes it and it's consensual have fun with it!
10/28/2013
Contributor: h3artsav3r h3artsav3r
I love pegging my sweetie, and I was super pumped about it the first time! After, all I could think about was doing it again. I constantly looked at new ideas or toys I could use on him the next time. Needless to say, I still do this, and I still get just as excited about it. I had to learn to contain my excitement, as we are both "switches." It's all about what works for you and your partner. I can totally understand your feelings, and I think it's wonderful you found something new that you both enjoy! Happy pegging!!

P.S. I agree with PropertyOfPotter, You guys should play it safe!!!
12/11/2013
Contributor: kinkedu kinkedu
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Originally posted by Tightgirl2013
Tightgirl2013
Last night my husband and I decided to try some bondage play. Once things started I made him the submissive. Things went in a direction they never have and I ended up fucking his ass with everything I could.... My fingers, vibrators, ... more
I think it's great that you could push past the stigma society puts on things like pegging! If you both really did enjoy it then you should invest in a strap on! There are great beginner kits, and honestly toys are safer than other things you'd find around the house so if you two are REALLY interested in it then a strap on is a great idea! You can even get pieces for the strap on that are specifically made for hitting his prostate.
12/11/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
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Originally posted by Tightgirl2013
Tightgirl2013
Last night my husband and I decided to try some bondage play. Once things started I made him the submissive. Things went in a direction they never have and I ended up fucking his ass with everything I could.... My fingers, vibrators, ... more
Pegging is so fun!!! Definitely keep exploring the kink - as long as he's into it, too! Communication is key!
12/12/2013