Name calling...

sugarOne sugarOne
During sex do you like to have your partner call your names? Like a dirty little slut? Or other names in that general area?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes
Sir , Maiden , TitsMcScandal , Naughty Student , Trashley , Cupcake Girl , SydVicious , Kim! , SexyySarah , Persephone Nightmare , Sammi , DeliciousSurprise , Tisbury , silversnowleopardess , UrNaughtyaAngel , Madeira , paralax , Airen Wolf , namelesschaos , Tart , Shellz31 , guy4guyz420 , Glasgow Smile , GeekWife , Alegria , RosesThorns , DustBunny , Matheri89 , Mocha98 , SimplySynful , Emma (Girl With Fire) , TexasFire , Mistress Kitty , Stujen , Redboxbaby , mllebeauty , anonymouse , RubenesqueAna , dv8 , potstickers , LavenderSkies , Angel deSanguine , Linga , Lady Marmelade , Sex'и'Violence , MaryExy , Redheadinfla , lunapixie , salaciousrex , Nando , Jackol , CuteDee , jay28 , Epicurean , LennaKieran , Karen Affeldt , stlouisxxx , Mika R. , sarki , onehotmama , deletedacct , kendra30752 , soyandapplecrisp , JessCee , Spoken Pandora , Rub My Ducky , Pixel , reysgirl83 , CandidKinkster , rachaelxfaith , ellieprobable , Kinkme , Shorty32 , toxie m , Sinfully , moose1120 , Kayla&JJ ♥ , jeangel246 , smartbabi92 , Kitka , Miss Nessa , Missmarc , Mistress Jezebel , Kendrir , LilMissSub , spnkegrl , 12345678 , AMTTT , MrWishyWashy , LilShae , GoneBabyGone , JGrey , neon , biancajames , ~miss senora~ , babychika , solita , switzerland , Nazaress , miss-miss , Willow Wand , blacklodge , Silverdrop , ScarletFox , 131231e43 , Doah , geliebt , Ava5 , sweetnlow4u , LoveDove , mutewolf , dks210 , elli , TheSinDoll , spineyogurt , Wildchild , Pinkie Pie , KaraSutra , JackRaiden , Lacey Fennec , Bebela , Phantom2291 , Chefbriapink , Living Doll , marigolds6 , Strider , CaseyDeuce , hall5885 , Thumper Logic , SecretKinksters , doowop , Cowgirl-Cutie , bratcat , A Good Girl , luvslukin , lainebug , comatose-kitty
137
No
Gunsmoke , Coralbell , Hannah Savage , Envy , LittleBoPeep , LikeSunshineDust , Sweet-Justice , ZenaidaMacroura , Batty Harlot , BBW Talks Toys , Hot'n'Bothered , Phoenix713 , Miss Cinnamon , ToyGeek , Taylor , Hallmar82 , Cadence , Onanist , Kimbertrees , Lady Neshamah , Crystal1 , darthkitt3n , Rossie , froggiemoma , Alyjazz , RainbowOokami , ichwillwaffels , slynch , Stinkytofu10 , BlackxxxRose , sktb0007 , wrmbreze , hiroshiro , her angelness , serenadinginsanity , Siekarr , jc123 , Collogue , BlooJay , Llahsram , jedent , Zombirella , aliceinthehole , Slavetim , fredacarl , Vaginas , Eugler , dawnkye , Edeneve , FLIPxMODE , Hummingbird , ~Minty~ , IvyFayette , phoenixfire , hillys
55
Sometimes
sugarOne , Not here , Naughty Student , ~LaUr3n~ , Apinkjellybean04 , Yoda , Lady Venus , TaseT , Viktor Vysheslav Malkin , Airen Wolf , Lonewolf , RadRach , leatherlover , ReadyAllTheTime , SexyTabby , softkkisses , lamira , Mistress Kitty , Destri , Nicky , Kimbertrees , C4ss , Lummox , Redboxbaby , sbon , closed account , MrRainybowbow , MaMa Luv , her.royal.redness , Eliza , Lio , *HisMrs* , Misfit Momma , Anjulie , SexyLilPixi , gehuwd , tickle me pink , big b , Inwitari , kelaaa33wish , Miss Morphine , ichigostrawberry , soyandapplecrisp , anonymouse58 , Pixel , Errant Venture , liilii080 , Maeby , Mr. & Mrs. Peg , Kinkme , kvisnirskitten , angel142stx , ily , The Curious Couple , True Pleasures , LilLostLenore , SMichelle , Kendrir , allybee , AMTTT , bayosgirl , Squeaky , babychika , hyacinthgirl , null , shcoo , StarbucksAddict , (k)InkyIvy , mpfm , k3 , Megan Jean , Doah , LoveDove , arduous , Kalis , aliceinthehole , Nkev , Curiouscat , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Brandi Rouxxx , zeebot , Phantom2291 , Incendiaire , Chefbriapink , Strider , Bethy Cassatt , novanilla , froggygal91 , chort , lainebug
90
Total votes: 282 (264 voters)
Poll is closed
09/01/2010
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sugarOne sugarOne
It depends on my mood. I dont like my partner to say it all the time! but every once in a while is fine with me!
09/01/2010
Sir Sir
Depends on the name and situation, but yes. I love being called an asshole or a jerk, it really makes me excited. Likewise, I use a lot of words too, like slut, bitch, whore. I do not like being called names as much as I like using them, though.

Does being called daddy count? Because that's something she always does.
09/01/2010
Maiden Maiden
I like to be called names; bitch, whore, slut, cunt, with or with out the preface "dirty", but mostly with it. My favorite though is "good girl"

I call him Daddy, and nothing else in the bedroom except maybe baby or his name every now and then.
09/01/2010
Not here Not here
It depends on my mood.. but I definitely like being called a dirty little slut on occasion. It's been a while, I should change that!
09/01/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I don't mind being called a "dirty little girl" or sweet little names like that. My man would never call me a whore or slut, it's not really in his vocabulary, lol (he's french canadian).

I don't like it that he uses this type of speach all the time and he does use it quite often which sort of defeats the purpose of it. It should be saved for intercourse only not for when I am doing the dishes bcs it removes the naughtiness of it, to me any ways.
09/02/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Not slut, but dirty girl or boy is a common one.
09/02/2010
Trashley Trashley
I always wanted to but could never use "daddy," unless it was in Spanish. It always felt too Freudian for me, and I have wayyyyy too many daddy issues to begin with! Hahah but filthy whore, dirty little slut, undeserving cunt, the whole shebang. I love being used, and most people think it's really weird, but it's truly the submissive that's always in control! :]
09/02/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
Yes, I love it, but not every time.
09/06/2010
Apinkjellybean04 Apinkjellybean04
We like to but not all the time
09/09/2010
Envy Envy
Not big on name calling at all. Too many bad memories. I like dirty talk sure, but not humiliation.
09/09/2010
Jenniae09 Jenniae09
I like dirty talk, but I cannot stand being called bad names. Probably a lot of bad associations with the past. If it's mentioned it's an automatic turn off for me and just put my clothes on and go back to whatever I was doing before. =/ Every once and a while "dirty girl" or whatever is fine with me though.
09/09/2010
silversnowleopardess silversnowleopardess
Up until I got together with my husband, I couldn't stand to be called names such as whore, slut or cunt. The first time he called me a dirty little slut during sex, I had a total "wtf" moment, but I've come to enjoy it now. He never means it in the negative way that I used to associate it with, and I actually get turned on by it now. How things change, lol.
09/13/2010
UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
Ooh I love dirty talk it really gets me going but never been call names. Before I would have been like no way but now I am like depends on the moment how hot and dirty the sex is.
09/14/2010
Madeira Madeira
I love it, particularly insults directed at my intelligence and sexual behavior, "stupid slut" and such
09/18/2010
paralax paralax
definitely adds more flavor to the moment and to role playing, especially under sub dom circumstances.
09/18/2010
LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
Name calling is something we've never really gotten into.
09/18/2010
Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
It'd be cool sometimes.
09/19/2010
Tart Tart
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
Depends on the name and situation, but yes. I love being called an asshole or a jerk, it really makes me excited. Likewise, I use a lot of words too, like slut, bitch, whore. I do not like being called names as much as I like using them, ... More
I love it! I never thought of name calling on the part of the submissive. I say "I don't like you very much" but that's the extent. I don't want to cross a line. I should talk to my Dom about this, I would love to call him an asshole!
10/21/2010
Shellz31 Shellz31
I love being called all sorts of names. At first I wasnt comfortable with it. But once I learnt to take it as fun, I enjoy it.
10/22/2010
Illusional Illusional
Sometimes it's fun, I have to be in the mood.
10/22/2010
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I've never been called a name during sex, so I don't really know. Hmm. I may have to casually mention this forum topic to my boyfriend.
10/27/2010
Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by Tart
I love it! I never thought of name calling on the part of the submissive. I say "I don't like you very much" but that's the extent. I don't want to cross a line. I should talk to my Dom about this, I would love to call him an asshole!
HAHAA!! That's cute, I like that.

She knows that it gets me off, because I can sometimes be an arrogant jerk and hearing her call me an asshole just makes me feel more aggressive and almost playful in a way. It's sort of strange, because I'm not masochistic, but I also like to be smacked in the face for the same reason that I like being called an asshole.

Now, if she were to call me a bitch, then I'd get livid pissed...
11/04/2010
DustBunny DustBunny
I'm his bitch in the bedroom, but since that's less and less due to both of us working I'm normally just his cuddlemuffin.
11/05/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Trashley
I always wanted to but could never use "daddy," unless it was in Spanish. It always felt too Freudian for me, and I have wayyyyy too many daddy issues to begin with! Hahah but filthy whore, dirty little slut, undeserving cunt, the whole ... More
Yeah, me too. Can't use "Daddy" even in Spanish (which is close to Italian, where my people are from. And Spanish, the culture which one of my girl's fiancees is from.)) Too Freudian and......icky for me. My Man and I HAVE kids, so they call him "Daddy" or "Papi" and it makes both My Man and I uncomfortable for me to call him that in any context. With the exception of "Go ask Papi if he will take you to the store."

Other nasty words are fine. We both use them and have a good time. My Man asked me long ago, if he could use these words in bed before doing so. Consent is the key, I think.
11/05/2010
SexyTabby SexyTabby
Sometimes, I don't like slut or whore but bitch and fuck toy are pretty common. I don't really call him anything specific.
11/05/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyTabby
Sometimes, I don't like slut or whore but bitch and fuck toy are pretty common. I don't really call him anything specific.
I use "babe" a lot. I sometimes call him a "son of a bitch" when things get really hot. Or when I'm goofing around.

He also uses "nasty words" in humor (as long as the kids aren't in hearing range.) "Go make me a sammich, bitch!" It's all in good fun, he'd never use them in a mean way.
11/05/2010
SexyTabby SexyTabby
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I use "babe" a lot. I sometimes call him a "son of a bitch" when things get really hot. Or when I'm goofing around.

He also uses "nasty words" in humor (as long as the kids aren't in hearing range.) ... More
rofl hubby tells me all the time to 'go make a sammich woman!' lol

In the bedroom though it's mainly me talking so I usually refer to myself as bitch or fuck toy. Hubby's too sweet to be aggressive in name calling lol.
11/05/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyTabby
rofl hubby tells me all the time to 'go make a sammich woman!' lol

In the bedroom though it's mainly me talking so I usually refer to myself as bitch or fuck toy. Hubby's too sweet to be aggressive in name calling lol.
LOL! He calls me "Woman!" all the time. Often when he's being funny, when we're in bed, and once in a while, I think, when he's really angry and wants to avoid using something more offensive. He came from a very verbally abusive family, (and physically abusive) and is working very hard to not repeat the past.

I think, in a way, our "play" with this kind of talk is Healing. We both know when it's used in an affectionate or sexual way, or a playful way, and it helps defuse the abuse from our pasts.

It's amazing how many variations of "Rough Sex" are actually therapeutic! But, I think you need to be ready for it, we could never have done some of this stuff, say even 10 years ago, because it was too close and too soon. We both had to grow before we could ease into some of this stuff.
11/05/2010
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
For us, unless it's girl/boy... man/woman... sir/ma'am... then no.
11/05/2010
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