Slapping: Yay or Nay?

Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I've recently discovered that I love when my man slaps me across the face while we're having sex. Just enough to make it sting a little bit, but not enough to hurt super bad.
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Mmm, I love being slapped.
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54  (46%)
No thank you.
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56  (47%)
I kinda wanna try it.
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8  (7%)
Total votes: 118
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08/18/2011
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Pixel Pixel
I hate face slapping. I have a violent reaction to the point where I've tried to bite and claw my way free from Master when he did it to me. It's something that Master likes though, so he's trying to get me over reacting so strongly to it. Doubt I'm ever going to enjoy that particular thing, though.
08/18/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
my dad used to hit me in the face as a kid, so it brings back some violent mechanism in me and i really cant hardly stand it. a friend once did it to me playfully, but hit me kind of hard. guess he thought i was like one of the guys. took me a while to get over that.

08/18/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Maybe I'm just a bit weird. I think if anyone slapped me that wasn't him, I'd probably lose it. But when he does it...Mmmm.
08/18/2011
toxie m toxie m
I like it, but not too hard. It definitely feels very spicy and sexy at the right moment
08/18/2011
mizzmilla mizzmilla
Depends on the mood.
08/18/2011
married with children married with children
I think it is disrespectful, so I would never slap her
08/19/2011
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by Princess-Kayla ♥
I've recently discovered that I love when my man slaps me across the face while we're having sex. Just enough to make it sting a little bit, but not enough to hurt super bad.
I like being beaten up but id never even consider slapping my wife.
08/19/2011
JessCee JessCee
Quote:
Originally posted by Princess-Kayla ♥
I've recently discovered that I love when my man slaps me across the face while we're having sex. Just enough to make it sting a little bit, but not enough to hurt super bad.
I recently discovered the same.. It was weird though. It made me cry, but I really liked it. I wasn't crying because I was hurt.. I'm not sure why it made me cry at all... it wasn't very hard, like you said... anyway, I say yay
08/19/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
We tried slapping (and choking) for the first time the other day. I don't like it-too painful. I prefer light choking.
08/19/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
I think it is disrespectful, so I would never slap her
I could see why you would think that. And honestly in any setting other than the bedroom, I'd probably be pissed. But in the bedroom, it's like Mmm.

@JessCee, I love choking too. More than slapping. But I still love slapping.
08/19/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
As long as it's not too hard, I do.
08/20/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
As long as it's on my ass and good and hard it's fine. Face no way!
08/20/2011
BellaDonna2884 BellaDonna2884
I like spanking but I also don't like my face touched. I'll pace on the face slapping.
08/20/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
No. Face slapping crosses a line, for me.
08/20/2011
JRabbits JRabbits
*snorts* I'm telling you now, if anyone slaps me across the face, kink play or not, I'm knocking the hell out of someone.
08/20/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
Never - to me that's a huge insult and I would never do it to anyone else either!
08/20/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
I've never tried it. I don't know if I'd like it, I think it would have to happen in order for me to know. I only DON'T have a problem with it because if it happends between me and him, I know it's not comming from a rude or hateful place. I don't know how I could make it happen. I don't know if I could just be like "SLAP ME IN THE FACE" during sex. I think doing that would make things VERY weird.
08/20/2011
Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I don't really have an opinion on it either way. It probably wouldn't turn me on, but it doesn't freak me out either.
08/20/2011
EdenG EdenG
I really don't know on this one. I've learned that over the years that my guy and I have been together there are all sorts of things I enjoy that I didn't think I would a year or two or three earlier. I would be open to it as long as we talked about it first and boundaries were set, how hard or soft etc. And then there are times we try something and it's like ....no, I don't like that at all-never again, but hey at least now we know! Most of the time though, I find I'm unexpectedly really in to our new ventures.
08/20/2011
Screen Door Screen Door
I want to try it, but I don't know, one day... lol
08/20/2011
Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
My interest in it has recently been rekindled. It can be very nummy.
08/20/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
In the right kind of scene, it's simply *lovely*. Mind, I do have to be in the right head space.
08/20/2011
Ava5 Ava5
It highly depends on the circumstances for me. I've had someone do this and it was fun and hot, but I think under the wrong set of variables it could be horrible and feel like abuse.
08/21/2011
sarki sarki
Only if the giver wants a broken nose and black eyes
08/21/2011
Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
I really like it. We get into some fairly intense scenes and it really adds to those.

I cry, too, but not because he's hurt me or because I'm upset. It's just... the amount of intense emotion that gets built up and released in the kind of scene in which we would be doing this needs an outlet and that's it.

My partner, of course, is amazing - he is very observant of the differences between that sort of crying and "I'm hurt/I'm too upset/That's not good" crying and is always ready with a warm blanket and cuddles if he crosses a line. And, bless his heart, he learned to make tea specifically so he could bring me tea when I'm coming down from that stuff.
08/21/2011
FleurDevereux FleurDevereux
Maybe not all the time. My husbands not a very violent person. I beg him to do things like that all the time. When he gets in the mood for it and I'm all for it he will. Those are some of the best nights.
08/23/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Princess-Kayla ♥
I've recently discovered that I love when my man slaps me across the face while we're having sex. Just enough to make it sting a little bit, but not enough to hurt super bad.
slapping and hair pulling I love it all
08/23/2011
Collogue Collogue
My guy is very big on never hitting a woman ever, so I don't think he'd be into trying this. I think it would just make him feel bad.

A thorough spanking is good enough for me!
08/31/2011
indiglo indiglo
No, I am not interested in that at all. In fact, if it were to happen, that would be the end of that.
09/04/2011
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Unique posters: 82