Teaching someone to dominate you?

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Teaching someone to dominate you?

MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
I have a bf that likes to be dominated insted of dominate in fact hes never really tried to dominate before. I have no problem dominateing him but sometimes i'd like to be dominated and put in place but he has no clue how to. I dont really know how to teach him to do all that. Any good books that i could get that would give some good ideas for beginers?
01/02/2011
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Yoda Yoda
I have the same problem. I would really like to know if there are some comprehensive resources out there that are strictly for beginners and folks that aren't interested in the "lifestyle". Every book I've seen so far is poorly illustrated and seems geared towards people that want to be dominant all the time, both inside and outside of the bedroom. Why isn't there anything written for folks that just want to role play for the sake of fun?
01/03/2011
0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Just start with the little basics... having him say dominating things during normal intercourse and then escalate it from there.
01/05/2011
MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
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Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Just start with the little basics... having him say dominating things during normal intercourse and then escalate it from there.
He doesnt even know how to do that .-. thats why im on the search for a perfect book thats not full hardcore for us
01/05/2011
petite-n-sweet petite-n-sweet
I have the same problem. My guy is not very dominating... but I am submissive. Ive had to spell out a lot of things to him over the last few years, and reassure him that I like it. The safe word concept was key when we finally started. We've also watched BDSM porn together and I tell him how it turns me on. Good sex comes from good communication. Keep working on it and you will get there.
01/05/2011
Yoda Yoda
I guess a book like this just doesn't exist. Hmm...any authors reading this?
01/20/2011
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