What is your safe word??

Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Mine is "peaches". Totally random and not something I could forget.
08/05/2012
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Pixel Pixel
I usually use either "RED!" or tap out. (Two firm taps to my partner's body with one hand...it's not something that could be mistaken for random twitches or flailing, especially if you've had martial arts training!)
08/05/2012
Midnightsun327 Midnightsun327
Master is a professional driver, so we use a traffic light system, red light is my safe word. And when I am gagged, I have a bell tied to my finger and ring it when I am in danger.
08/05/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
Fruit salad. If I'm gagged I hum the Wiggles song...
08/05/2012
Midnightsun327 Midnightsun327
Quote:
Originally posted by solitudinarian
Fruit salad. If I'm gagged I hum the Wiggles song...
Lol, love the idea of humming the Wiggles song! Sometimes, you can tell by something like a safe word if a community member is a parent or not. What parent wouldn't stop what they were doing when they hear the Wiggles song?
08/06/2012
LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I keep it simple; Yellow for it's getting a bit intense and RED for OMG THIS IS TOO MUCH STOP NOW!
08/06/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
For playing at parties green, yellow, red. For my dom and I? it's Boatnectar. It's an inside joke. I picked something that we could both laugh at to help pull me from a bad head space if I needed to.
08/06/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
red,yellow, green system for us
08/06/2012
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I like the color system. It makes it easy to remember too.
08/06/2012
xxombie xxombie
Ours has always been "Avacado." Just something random that isn't in our everyday vocab use. I do like the color system as well, might try that. If you use red for absolute stop, yellow for slow it down, what do you use green for? Do you think it's really necessary?? Curious.
08/07/2012
xladyzoeyx xladyzoeyx
I use the color system as well. I love it.
08/10/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
We haven't come up with a safe word yet, but the color system is easy to remember.
08/10/2012
Etoile237 Etoile237
Exterminate, because I'm a big geek
09/15/2012
CuteDee CuteDee
Bf said its my tone of voice... I think me crawling away from him, says it all!
09/15/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
Shomer negiah. Yeah, we're Jewish, he used to be really, really observant, and...this is funny if you understand it.

So, "shomer" is to observe or literally, "guard" something. If someone asks if you're "shomer shabbat," they are asking if you observe the Sabbath. "Negiah" is "touch." Jews who are shomer negiah do not even touch members of the opposite sex, barring their immediate opposite sex family members, and husbands/wives.

Over the years, he has left that orthodox observance, and we enjoy a very uninhibited sexual relationship...he's less observant than I am, and I'm pretty damn liberal in my observances. Anyway, we use "shomer negiah" because it's kind of an in joke between us--it's not only a safeword, but a safeword that immediately sucks the tension away from the situation and makes us laugh; "Oh, you're shomer negiah again, hmm? This act is so immodest, I can't believe we're touching!"

That's the best that I can describe it.
09/15/2012
itismedi itismedi
Mine is the WORST safe word in the history of safe words and I do not recommend it for anyone, but it works for us. I yell STOP. We have used this for years and it was my husband's idea. We had a different safe word, but I RARELY use it. When I needed it, I forgot it and yelled stop. My husband changed it to stop after that because he said it was something I NEVER say and made him literally stop in his tracks. I say wait, hold on, no, etc... but never stop (I don't know why) so it has been our word for about 8 years now. Again, this is not a word I recommend!
09/15/2012
Vanille Vanille
I don't have one, I open my mouth and say "That's enough I can't take anymore." *shrugs* If I'm gagged, I either 'tap out' or drop something noisy.
09/15/2012
glasskitten glasskitten
Quote:
Originally posted by Etoile237
Exterminate, because I'm a big geek
You Whovian, you!
09/16/2012
Mitzuki Mitzuki
Ours is banana. It's from a skit from a show waaaay back in the day. If you get it, kudos!

I love the bell idea for if I'm gagged. I never would have thought of that!
09/16/2012
AlleyKitten AlleyKitten
Red. Well, in my language anyways.
09/19/2012
Ouroborean Ouroborean
My pet and I use the traffic light system, generally. Red - stop, yellow - slow down/be careful or ready to stop if needed, green - keep on trucking, etc.
09/19/2012
sw33t1zm3 sw33t1zm3
Quote:
Originally posted by Leather & Lace
Mine is "peaches". Totally random and not something I could forget.
i havent thought of one yet lol but i will with my husband today
09/19/2012
sexynola sexynola
he says he can tell by the look in my eyes
09/19/2012
Glinteye Glinteye
Weve never really had one
09/19/2012
MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
I am Australian, and we have some called vegemite, a yeast based toasted spread incase you dont know what it is. And I HATE it! My husband's says it makes me unAutsralian to not like it, so we turned it in to our safe word.
09/19/2012
Berly2Dope Berly2Dope
Nintendo. It was all we could think of at the time and it stuck.
09/20/2012
Roz W Roz W
I like colors. It's not hard to remember, and I'm more likely to end up in a situation where I have to call yellow ("slow down!") than red.
09/20/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by solitudinarian
Fruit salad. If I'm gagged I hum the Wiggles song...
Lol! Too clever.

We just use the stoplight system.
09/21/2012
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