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paralax paralax
does straping on get to the finish? can you have the big o just by pegging your guy? i do it for my partner but i never reach the finish for myself. it turns me on but then after he is done i get the feeling of dissapointment. any suggestions?
09/09/2010
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silversnowleopardess silversnowleopardess
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
does straping on get to the finish? can you have the big o just by pegging your guy? i do it for my partner but i never reach the finish for myself. it turns me on but then after he is done i get the feeling of dissapointment. any suggestions?
I can achieve a clitoral orgasm with the set up we have right now. I adjust the harness low so that the suction cup base of the dildo presses against my clitoris, and that usually works for me.
09/13/2010
Madeira Madeira
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
does straping on get to the finish? can you have the big o just by pegging your guy? i do it for my partner but i never reach the finish for myself. it turns me on but then after he is done i get the feeling of dissapointment. any suggestions?
Well, my partner and I are lesbians, but she's come while stapping it on, though we often stick a vibe between her and the harness
09/18/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
does straping on get to the finish? can you have the big o just by pegging your guy? i do it for my partner but i never reach the finish for myself. it turns me on but then after he is done i get the feeling of dissapointment. any suggestions?
Dunno, neither of my partners is interested in pegging but I'd love to try!
09/19/2010
Kayla Kayla
I can't orgasm while using a strap-on. He enjoys it quite a bit though. What I'd recommend is that you take your "dominant" role and "make" him give you oral or manual stimulation. I've also seen in queer porn where they loosen the top of the harness a little bit to slip their hand underneath the harness.
09/19/2010
Tart Tart
I do not cum from fucking with my strap on, but I have this feeling of accomplishment every time I fuck the shit out of my girl. She can hardly speak, with a beautiful dazed expression on her face. Her orgasm is my orgasm in a way. It's very fulfilling.
10/28/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
That's easy - go first! I always give my girl an orgasm or two before any activities for my self - or straight intercourse.
10/28/2010
ScottA ScottA
Foreplay is very important, having one orgasm first (or getting very close) definitely helps. Also try to get some in between the woman putting on the harness/dildo and her mounting the man, either oral or manual work.

Once that's done (or before that's done) you can help things out with good toy selection. Choose a dildo/harness combination that gets stimulation to her clit or G-spot (look at where it mounts the base of the dildo on her, investigate vibrators, etc.) Doubles (strapless dildos) can help as well.
10/29/2010
Liz2 Liz2
The correct (for me) combination of harness and dil wil allow me to orgasm as the giver. I need a harness that rides low and a dil with a wide base to hit my clit while thrusting. The Aslan Jaguar and the Spare Parts harnesses work for me as do most of the VixSkin dils with wide bases.
10/29/2010
RosesThorns RosesThorns
With the feeldoe I do get mine, but with other strapon combos I didnt...
11/02/2010
Beaners Beaners
Using a dildo that has a bullet vibe, like the Vixen Creations ones can also help with having an orgasm from strapping one on.

Scott gave some great advice with the foreplay suggestion as well. My boy will give "me" a blow job while I'm wearing the harness and work some manual magic on my clit at the same time. It. Is. Awesome.
12/06/2010
oldkinky oldkinky
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
does straping on get to the finish? can you have the big o just by pegging your guy? i do it for my partner but i never reach the finish for myself. it turns me on but then after he is done i get the feeling of dissapointment. any suggestions?
My wife always cums when she fucks me with the strap on. Our harness has a couple of vibrators for stimulating her clitoris while she fucks me. She gets so hot wearing the strap on and when she puts the dildo in me.
12/07/2010
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
does straping on get to the finish? can you have the big o just by pegging your guy? i do it for my partner but i never reach the finish for myself. it turns me on but then after he is done i get the feeling of dissapointment. any suggestions?
never tryed a strap on, kinda want to though.
10/05/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
Depends on the strap on. I can with my share, for instance. And with harnesses with pockets for bullets. But the real fun for me in fucking my partner is watching her turn into a puddle of goo. It's fucking hot, and I always feel like stud.
10/06/2011
Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
I've not gotten to try pegging my partner. I'm kinda interested in finding out though.
10/12/2011
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
does straping on get to the finish? can you have the big o just by pegging your guy? i do it for my partner but i never reach the finish for myself. it turns me on but then after he is done i get the feeling of dissapointment. any suggestions?
agreed, i need more stimilation down there straping on just doesnt cut it, i usually strap on for a while then my bf returns the fav.
10/14/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
does straping on get to the finish? can you have the big o just by pegging your guy? i do it for my partner but i never reach the finish for myself. it turns me on but then after he is done i get the feeling of dissapointment. any suggestions?
I'd suggest organizing your play so that you orgasm first. This would do two things. Avoid the disappointment of him finishing and not you, and after you have had your first orgasm or two, you may find achieving an orgasm while pegging more likely. Good luck.
10/14/2011
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