orgasm for the wearer of a strapon + spareparts theo harnes

kimfine kimfine
Joque harness large
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Hey there, we really love having strapon play but for a year now and bought the spareparts theo harness. The problem is i can't get my climax whilst wearing a harness. Are there any trics?

thnx!
12/01/2010
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ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by kimfine
Hey there, we really love having strapon play but for a year now and bought the spareparts theo harness. The problem is i can't get my climax whilst wearing a harness. Are there any trics?

thnx!
What dildo are you using? Where do you have the base placed? How do you orgasm best - clitoral stimulation, or do you need some penetration as well? What sensations set you off?

All of these need to be considered, because strap-on play is different. You need to make sure that you position the dildo so that you get stimulation, and perhaps consider working in a way to increase your stimulation through a vibrator or one of the double dildos.
12/01/2010
Mocha98 Mocha98
Hmmm, I should look into that as well. Sorry I am not any help!
12/02/2010
kimfine kimfine
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
What dildo are you using? Where do you have the base placed? How do you orgasm best - clitoral stimulation, or do you need some penetration as well? What sensations set you off?

All of these need to be considered, because strap-on play is ... More
well we use a regular dildo with a flare and flat base. we had one with a hollow base and put a minivibe in it but this hurts my pelvis when getting rough
12/03/2010
N2everythingfun N2everythingfun
I know this post is a little late but I just registered. My wife uses the WeVibe 2 while wearing the harness. We have the Joque model not the Theo but it should not make a differnce. My wife is able to have multiple orgasms and has never complained that it hurt her pelvis area even during rough play. The WeVibe is a little expensive but in our opinion well worth it! Hope this helps!
03/10/2011
Liz2 Liz2
I use either a double dil, Feeldoe or Tango or the Little Hottie in my vagina and the Leo externally. The base of the Leo hits my clit just right.
03/10/2011
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by kimfine
well we use a regular dildo with a flare and flat base. we had one with a hollow base and put a minivibe in it but this hurts my pelvis when getting rough
Missed this one!

The Vixen dildos are really the only ones that have a deep enough pocket to use in a harness with a vibrator. You can slide a bullet (or another toy such as N2's suggestion of a WeVibe) down near her clit to give some more stimulation, and it helps if you play with the harness position to put the base of the dildo over her clit.

You can also get an Aslan Double-Up Cuff if you don't want to get a double, then you can have her wear a dildo as well for some penetrative stimulation.
03/10/2011
N2everythingfun N2everythingfun
Quote:
Originally posted by kimfine
Hey there, we really love having strapon play but for a year now and bought the spareparts theo harness. The problem is i can't get my climax whilst wearing a harness. Are there any trics?

thnx!
My wife lobes to use the Wevibe with the harness. She can have multiple orgasms and it is very comfy with the harness.
03/19/2011
kimfine kimfine
hi there!!!!!

i completely forgot about my post (sorry)
but thank you very much for the responses so far.

Some of you mentioned the pelvis problem (hurts while getting wild)
Doesn't the we vibe also hurts when thrusting??

About the dildo, we plan on vixen woody, we had the leo
but the bullet vibe does not disappear in the hole in the base
so this hurts to much

x
06/06/2011
carie.anne carie.anne
Quote:
Originally posted by kimfine
hi there!!!!!

i completely forgot about my post (sorry)
but thank you very much for the responses so far.

Some of you mentioned the pelvis problem (hurts while getting wild)
Doesn't the we vibe also hurts when ... More
The first couple times we used the SpareParts harness were kind of awkward for me. It was our first go at pegging and it has taken me a long time to open up to sexual experiences using toys. It wasn't very comfortable at first. Uncomfortable pressure in the wrong places. Adjusting the placement of the dildo made the biggest difference for me. Placing it low on my pelvis gave me just the right control and I orgasm every time.
03/09/2012
ScottA ScottA
Yep, try lowering the harness so part of the dildo base rubs over your clit. Sometimes your control goes down as the dildo gets lower, so this may be a balancing game.

You can also try putting a short dildo or plug (strong, stif bases are better) inside you and trying to configure the harness so it presses against the base and causes the dildo/plug to wiggle around inside you.
03/11/2012
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