Is it more important to feel loved, or pleasured?

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Is it more important to feel loved, or pleasured?

arilikewoah arilikewoah
A common question.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Loved
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Pleasured
both
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Total votes: 71 (65 voters)
Poll is closed
01/24/2013
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js250 js250
When you feel loved--the pleasure follows. If it is only pleasured, it is comparable to fast food--you are full and it was gratifying, but does not last.
01/24/2013
Aishiteru Aishiteru
Loved.
01/24/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
I honestly think they go hand in hand. It's hard not to answer loved, but at some point life without pleasure will start to wear you down, causing problems.
01/24/2013
froggygal91 froggygal91
Most definitely loved
01/24/2013
Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
To feel loved is definitely more important but I tend to agree that if you do feel loved then the pleasure will follow.
01/24/2013
Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Love!
01/24/2013
CuddleWhore CuddleWhore
Pleasure is important, but love wins out.
01/25/2013
Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
Loved is much better.
01/25/2013
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
Feeling loved IS a pleasure.
01/25/2013
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Love
02/03/2013
Ayumi Ayumi
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
When you feel loved--the pleasure follows. If it is only pleasured, it is comparable to fast food--you are full and it was gratifying, but does not last.
I totally agree with this sentiment.
02/03/2013
mlmac mlmac
I would've said both, but being loved is far more important. Being pleasured is something that just comes along with being loved.
02/03/2013
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by XYCopperheadSly
Feeling loved IS a pleasure.
Touché!
02/03/2013
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I honestly think they go hand in hand. It's hard not to answer loved, but at some point life without pleasure will start to wear you down, causing problems.
I agree. I answered both because you can be loved, but not pleasured & it will wear you down and at that point, you look for pleasure in other things or worse, other people.
02/03/2013
shorejen9 shorejen9
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I honestly think they go hand in hand. It's hard not to answer loved, but at some point life without pleasure will start to wear you down, causing problems.
I agree completely!
02/03/2013
MrWill MrWill
I would take a very passionate romantic love with no sexual pleasure over the opposite any day.
02/03/2013
LoganAshlee. LoganAshlee.
Loved
02/28/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Love is by far more important. But when you really connect and love someone, pleasure follows, as well as the desire to please the one you love.
02/28/2013
table38792 table38792
Both are important but I'd go with loved if forced to choose between the two.
02/28/2013
edeneve edeneve
right now I'll take all the pleasure I can get from him!
02/28/2013
Rossie Rossie
For me, love and pleasure goes hand-in-hand.
02/28/2013
SkinnyDip SkinnyDip
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
When you feel loved--the pleasure follows. If it is only pleasured, it is comparable to fast food--you are full and it was gratifying, but does not last.
Exactly.
02/28/2013
hotinpink hotinpink
Quote:
Originally posted by arilikewoah
A common question.
Both.
02/28/2013
lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by arilikewoah
A common question.
both
02/28/2013
LexiKitten LexiKitten
Both. But loved more than pleasured.
02/28/2013
sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
Loved
03/15/2013
Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by arilikewoah
A common question.
I picked love, but both would be nice too!
03/16/2013
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
It has to be both for me.
03/16/2013
spiced spiced
Loved, for sure. I know this'll sound callous, but I can pleasure myself as well as anyone else possibly could!

I can love myself, too (and do), but someone who loves you has your back 24/7 and that's a wonderful thing.
03/16/2013
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