#SexIsSocial - October 2012 - Community Choice Monthly Topic - The Vote

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#SexIsSocial - October 2012 - Community Choice Monthly Topic - The Vote

Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray


You guys! Seriously, these suggestions are awesome. And some of you even made my job easier by expanding on your suggestions.

Because space is limited, we could not include the explanations and subtopics in the poll, but you can find them here if you're interested. I encourage you to check them out. And because they are such great ideas, if those topics win, we'll be including the explanations and subtopics in October's suggestions.

Unfortunately, some topics aren't appropriate for SexIs, so they were left out.

You've got till October 1st to vote. What're you waiting for?!


Contest Information
If a winning topic is suggested by more than one person, the first person who suggested the topic wins.
Each person can only win once. If you've suggested all 3 winning topics, you will receive only the 1st place gift card. 2nd and 3rd place cards will go to the runners up.
You've got until October 1st to vote on suggestions. Winners announcement will be posted in the SexIs forum section on October 3rd, so keep your eyes peeled!
Winners must email rayne[at]edenfantasys[dot]com to claim their prize. Prizes not claimed within 90 days are forfeit.
The three topics with the most votes will be added to October's topic suggestions.

Prizes
#1 suggestion: 3000 EdenPoints
#2 suggestion: 2000 EdenPoints
#3 suggestion: 1000 EdenPoints
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Raw facts and stastics on sex and sexual health
9
Normal or abnormal (What we should know about our bodies)
7
Erectile disfunction-the why? and the how to deal with it
1
Miscarriage
3
Masturbation
2
Sexual harassment
1
Seasonal changes affecting sex drive
3
Exploring the fascination with someone who is already in a relationship; why do some women and men actively court other people's boy/girl friends or husbands/wives?
2
Cheating
2
STD's/STI's - why the stigma? What place does it have in a sex-positive narrative?
1
relationships- love vs lust vs love&lust
1
feeling sexy during pregnancy and after pregnancy
1
Sex and pregnancy-the taboos, cautions, the myths about pregnancy and sex, ways to be happy explore yourself during pregnancy
2
Safe oral sex
1
Childfreedom, children are a choice not everyone needs to make
4
Friends with Benefits
2
Threesomes: the good and the bad, how to plan them, how to prepare, and what to do afterwards
6
How to talk to your partner about those things you are thinking about, but too embarrassed to verbalize...
5
How to manage when you and your partner don't have matching sex drives
9
Genderfluidity/Genderqueerness
3
Dealing with Sexual Starvation
1
Understanding Your Body (exploring your erogonous areas, finding your g-spot, etc.)
4
The Pains of Depression (how it can effect not only your mind, but your body and sex life as well)
1
Firsts
1
How American society views sexuality in films and how it differs from other countries in the world.
2
Do's and Don'ts of sexy costumes.
2
Dating etiquette and one-night stands
strange sex laws
2
giving consent
How to spice up a relationship and make it less boring
2
How to maintain your own identity in long term relationships and ensure that your partner does as well.
2
Halloween? A time to introduce role playing to your relationship?
1
Mastering the stress and maintaining intimacy during the holidays on your relationship.
1
Mental health and how it impact sexuality when issues are treated or untreated.
1
Pregnancy
1
Dos and Don'ts for a sexy Halloween.
2
Why people fake orgasms, Is it ever really okay, and how to come clean to your partner.
2
Why some parents and teachers tell their children that their first time will be unpleasant: speaking from experience, or scare tactic?
1
Why do people get together just as the holiday season approaches?
1
Pornography
2
Ways of handling a situation in which one partner wants to try something new, and the other doesn't.
1
Boundaries
1
how about articles on how to use a best seller toy in various ways to reach maximum pleasure and an O - or maybe a grouping of toys?
3
how about taking some of the sex guides and fleshing out certain aspects in an article that stands alone from them/it
1
The evolution of our sexuality for generation X'ers and Baby boomers.
1
BDSM safety
2
The cost of BDSM play with gear and such.
1
tutorial on bondage techniques
3
tips and pointers on how to keep a long distance relationship alive
3
Taking things seriously in the bedroom
1
Using sex and romance to strengthen a relationship
1
Not letting sexual dysfunction hurt a relationship
1
Sex in History (Exploring the old life and death cycles in history, most of which included sex.)
1
Sexuality and Halloween (why is it okay to be sexual on Halloween, but on no other holiday?)
1
Costumes (How to suggest, how to do it right, and how to have fun)
2
sugar daddy-baby lifestyle
1
There is a generation growing up online who may one day regret all the openness they're showing now. Or will they?
4
Going through menopause and how it affects your sex life.
1
Aging and sexuality.
2
some stories about how survivors can and have been able to reclaim their sexuality despite what others might assume about breast cancer.
1
Internal (female) condoms vs. external (male) condoms; why each one is awesome and why they should not be used together
1
How important to the voter is the reproductive health care issue in regards to this coming presidential election?
1
Along the lines of Breast Cancer Awareness, something about breast play after/during cancer and/or mastectomy.
1
Delayed Ejaculation.
1
Straight men and anal play.
4
Poly Relationships
1
Swinging
1
Daily stress and state of mind
4
Vaginal dryness
2
How open minded are you to new things in the bedroom
8
Sex and disabilities, including all facets of the mental and physical.
1
How to talk with your partner about your fantasies!
3
How to argue with your spouse maturely and actually feel like it was positive and constructive!
3
How to gently point out annoying habits to your partner(s) without belittling them or making them feel defensive.
2
What do you do after you learn your partner have been unfaithful. More importantly; how do you evaluate your relationship and decide if it's worth fighting for?
3
Total votes: 162 (34 voters)
Poll is closed
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js250 js250
Holy cow!!! You really want us to choose between a few of these!! They are all so very good....
09/21/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
Those are some great topics this month!
09/22/2012
Silverdrop Silverdrop
There are a lot of interesting topics there - some I'd like to write about and some I'd like to read about (with overlap between those two categories!)

I'm glad it's multiple option voting. A single choice would have been too hard.
09/22/2012
Risque Risque
Yikes! Tough choice! Can't we have them all
09/24/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
Oh there is a lot of choices.
09/26/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Tons of choices! Everyone did a great job!
09/26/2012
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
You guys! Seriously, these suggestions are awesome. And some of you even made my job easier by expanding on your suggestions. Because space is limited, we could not include the explanations and subtopics in the poll, but you can find them here if ...
Almost too many choices!
09/26/2012
Risque Risque
Can't wait to see the results!
09/29/2012
Total posts: 9
Unique posters: 8