Was your first anal play experience your idea or your partners?

Bignuf Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
TheeGirlNextDoor , Rossie , Thong man , CE , Dr Anal , RonLee , angel142stx , jeangel246 , Quezovercoatl , Yellow Dog , Azula , ily , AnalSlut , CuriousJ , Betty Perez , couples1 , irishlove , VtLady , Gunsmoke
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dv8 , Isola , *Ashley* , thebest , itismedi , inkky , SexScienceAndFood , OrchidCrush , paynosprincess , Aneros , Vnessa
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SaucyxGirl , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , Wicked Wahine , RonLee , Husband and Wife , KinkyCouple , LoveReImagined , Eugler , Birdie , bsgs , slynch , lala22 , Vnessa , symbiasin
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Total votes: 44 (42 voters)
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04/06/2014
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SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
It was a mixture. I voiced a general curiosity in the act and he voiced why don't we explore it.
04/06/2014
Rossie Rossie
It was my idea. I told him I was curious, so we gave it a try. It was not a fun first time because we didn't know the proper techniques back then...it was over thirty years ago!
04/06/2014
dv8 dv8
When I was a freshman in college, my then-girlfriend and I spent spring break in her apartment. She claimed her pussy was sore from all the sex and offered to do anal.
04/07/2014
CE CE
From the time I was 12 and saw my first Penthouse I wanted to have anal sex with women. Something about the soft smooth curves just drives my crazy and how can you fully enjoy a butt without using penetration?! So it's been my idea in every relationship and usually their first time.
04/16/2014
irishlove irishlove
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
We casually talked about it but when it came down to it I put my foot down to purchase of an anal toy.
04/27/2014
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
It truthfully came up after a sushi dinner and alot of alcohol. We literally bought a toy and the way home and the rest of it is history.
04/27/2014
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I voted 'other' because the only anal experience I've had is with a plug I used on myself while masturbating alone, so no one else was involved, lol! It did nothing for me until I also inserted a slim dildo in my vagina and played with my clit and then I had a fabulous, drawn-out orgasm! I couldn't feel the plug at all and the only difference I felt was when climaxing; I could keep going and going and I am not normally like that at all. The only other time i did that, and much longer at the time, was experiencing oral with a particular guy who kept me climaxing for two hours, I kid you not! I don't know if they just flowed one into the other, or what, but it felt like they never stopped and it was just one long orgasm. I was a complete zombie afterwards, lol! Now I wonder about if getting a better will help even more because the one I used was too long and pointy for me (Mood Naughty in Large)
04/27/2014
Dr Anal Dr Anal
I had watched a bunch of anal porn and that tried it myself with a toy and loved it!
04/28/2014
RonLee RonLee
With my very first partner necessity, being the mother of our invention, it was a collaborative idea, due to her fear of pregnancy. With my subsequent female bodied partners my idea and my male bodied partners either theirs or again a mutual idea.
04/28/2014
thebest thebest
it was their idea.
05/04/2014
Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
We both wanted to do it. She had always wanted to peg a man and I was more then willing that was 5 years ago
05/12/2014
Visexual Visexual
Now we mutually explored anal, both finger and cock for her, and finger for me.

I don't remember which of us first thought of her pegging me. It was just something we hadn't tried.

I enjoyed it and I think she did too but she didn't want to make it a habit.

When I admitted to her that I'd love to know what it's like to suck cock, we did that too and it was really hot. We did it a few times but she lost interest. I sure wish she hadn't. I wish that she, like some women, had penis envy and wanted several cocks. I'd suck every one of her cocks!
05/24/2014
itismedi itismedi
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Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
Part of a BDSM relationship
06/04/2014
LoveReImagined LoveReImagined
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
I voted other because my SO isn't really one to suggest things like that. He tries to be a prude haha! I guess I was the one that brought it up, but it certainly was something that had been on his mind for a while
06/08/2014
irishlove irishlove
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
It was my idea. My fiancé wasn't a butt guy or into anal play until we met nut I have a big ass so that changed his mind I suggested we try anal play and he agreed.
12/03/2014
Inquisitor Inquisitor
It was kind of a mutual decision.
12/04/2014
Liz2 Liz2
It was his idea and it was awfull....no lube and Prob not much silva . I hated it.....took me awhile to go there again.
But now I totallly luv it.....diff guy and of course lube, lube and lube. I luv to give it with my Strapon as well.....
12/09/2014
VtLady VtLady
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
Straight out asked for it. We had been playing with the dildos, and it just seemed like the right time. Haven't looked back since..lol ( no pun intended)
12/30/2014
Vnessa Vnessa
I said "his" idea but also said "other". How shall I explain lol. I was at a very experimental age, you know, when you are young enough that you're very inexperienced yet you want to seem experienced, so you jump at the chance to do all the things you read about or saw in porn without hesitation??? That was me with this situation. I'm pretty sure he said "let's try I" and said "why not". That was the 1 and only time for a very long time. Some things are better left to age and experience

I will say, I'm enjoying it much more NOW
Jun 4, 7:37 pm
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I said "his" idea but also said "other". How shall I explain lol. I was at a very experimental age, you know, when you are young enough that you're very inexperienced yet you want to seem experienced, so you jump at the chance ...
Oh V, that sounds like a not enjoyable 1st time. That is unfortunate. It should have been better.
Jun 4, 8:11 pm
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Oh V, that sounds like a not enjoyable 1st time. That is unfortunate. It should have been better.
Agreed, it wasnt. I learned very quickly not to be so eager--or at least to have a clue what I was getting in to
Jun 4, 9:53 pm
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Agreed, it wasnt. I learned very quickly not to be so eager--or at least to have a clue what I was getting in to
That was a good lesson to learn . Knowning is half the battle...
Jun 4, 11:01 pm
symbiasin symbiasin
I happened to turn my bare butt over and he saw opportunity so stuck it in....no lube, no condom and very fast.

Needless to say I screamed! It hurt!! At least he stopped right away but then said I screamed out of passion....yeah right.

Of course he was always pulling stunts like that...he's hopeless!
Jun 5, 5:54 pm
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by symbiasin
I happened to turn my bare butt over and he saw opportunity so stuck it in....no lube, no condom and very fast.

Needless to say I screamed! It hurt!! At least he stopped right away but then said I screamed out of passion....yeah right. ...
OMG! That is abuse. You really don't have to tolerate that.
Jun 5, 10:24 pm
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by RonLee
OMG! That is abuse. You really don't have to tolerate that.
Agreed! I hope you have warned him that if it continues, turn about is fair play.
Jun 5, 10:56 pm
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by RonLee
OMG! That is abuse. You really don't have to tolerate that.
It sure is, but I was kinda smitten by him, so I did a lot of excusing. If he ever comes around again, there will at least be written guarantees.
Jun 6, 1:08 am
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Agreed! I hope you have warned him that if it continues, turn about is fair play.
I will have a dildo with his name on it......lol. Guys around here like to give but not take.
Jun 6, 1:10 am
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