Was your first anal play experience your idea or your partners?

Bignuf Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
TheeGirlNextDoor , Rossie , Thong man , CE , Dr Anal , RonLee , angel142stx , jeangel246 , Quezovercoatl , Yellow Dog , Azula , ily , AnalSlut , CuriousJ , Betty Perez , couples1 , irishlove , VtLady
dv8 , Isola , *Ashley* , thebest , itismedi , inkky , SexScienceAndFood , OrchidCrush , paynosprincess , Aneros
SaucyxGirl , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , Wicked Wahine , RonLee , Husband and Wife , KinkyCouple , LoveReImagined , Eugler , Birdie , bsgs , slynch
Total votes: 39 (38 voters)
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SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
It was a mixture. I voiced a general curiosity in the act and he voiced why don't we explore it.
Rossie Rossie
It was my idea. I told him I was curious, so we gave it a try. It was not a fun first time because we didn't know the proper techniques back then...it was over thirty years ago!
dv8 dv8
When I was a freshman in college, my then-girlfriend and I spent spring break in her apartment. She claimed her pussy was sore from all the sex and offered to do anal.
From the time I was 12 and saw my first Penthouse I wanted to have anal sex with women. Something about the soft smooth curves just drives my crazy and how can you fully enjoy a butt without using penetration?! So it's been my idea in every relationship and usually their first time.
irishlove irishlove
Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
We casually talked about it but when it came down to it I put my foot down to purchase of an anal toy.
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
It truthfully came up after a sushi dinner and alot of alcohol. We literally bought a toy and the way home and the rest of it is history.
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I voted 'other' because the only anal experience I've had is with a plug I used on myself while masturbating alone, so no one else was involved, lol! It did nothing for me until I also inserted a slim dildo in my vagina and played with my clit and then I had a fabulous, drawn-out orgasm! I couldn't feel the plug at all and the only difference I felt was when climaxing; I could keep going and going and I am not normally like that at all. The only other time i did that, and much longer at the time, was experiencing oral with a particular guy who kept me climaxing for two hours, I kid you not! I don't know if they just flowed one into the other, or what, but it felt like they never stopped and it was just one long orgasm. I was a complete zombie afterwards, lol! Now I wonder about if getting a better will help even more because the one I used was too long and pointy for me (Mood Naughty in Large)
Dr Anal Dr Anal
I had watched a bunch of anal porn and that tried it myself with a toy and loved it!
RonLee RonLee
With my very first partner necessity, being the mother of our invention, it was a collaborative idea, due to her fear of pregnancy. With my subsequent female bodied partners my idea and my male bodied partners either theirs or again a mutual idea.
thebest thebest
it was their idea.
Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
We both wanted to do it. She had always wanted to peg a man and I was more then willing that was 5 years ago
Visexual Visexual
Now we mutually explored anal, both finger and cock for her, and finger for me.

I don't remember which of us first thought of her pegging me. It was just something we hadn't tried.

I enjoyed it and I think she did too but she didn't want to make it a habit.

When I admitted to her that I'd love to know what it's like to suck cock, we did that too and it was really hot. We did it a few times but she lost interest. I sure wish she hadn't. I wish that she, like some women, had penis envy and wanted several cocks. I'd suck every one of her cocks!
itismedi itismedi
Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
Part of a BDSM relationship
LoveReImagined LoveReImagined
Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
I voted other because my SO isn't really one to suggest things like that. He tries to be a prude haha! I guess I was the one that brought it up, but it certainly was something that had been on his mind for a while
irishlove irishlove
Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
It was my idea. My fiancé wasn't a butt guy or into anal play until we met nut I have a big ass so that changed his mind I suggested we try anal play and he agreed.
Inquisitor Inquisitor
It was kind of a mutual decision.
Liz2 Liz2
It was his idea and it was awfull....no lube and Prob not much silva . I hated it.....took me awhile to go there again.
But now I totallly luv it.....diff guy and of course lube, lube and lube. I luv to give it with my Strapon as well.....
VtLady VtLady
Originally posted by Bignuf
How did you, or they, bring up the topic?
Straight out asked for it. We had been playing with the dildos, and it just seemed like the right time. Haven't looked back since..lol ( no pun intended)
Total posts: 19
Unique posters: 18