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I haven't found a decent harness for my tiny-ass frame nor a dildo that is slim enough with the material safety I want. I'll keep searching for it though!
Kicking myself for missing this the first time -
Try getting in touch with Aslan Leather. They have gone on the record several times saying that they're willing to modify harnesses to fit because someone's size shouldn't get in the way of their fun.
Best part: Same price.
I'd also encourage your potential partner to try working up to a slightly larger dildo (since there are plenty of dils in the 1.25" range made of silicone). A 1.5" diameter/5.5" insertable is really good for pegging - stiff enough to not bend, long enough to not slip out, and big enough to stimulate well.