Do you have a better orgasm by yourself or with your lover?

yrnw yrnw
Hard call. They're both good, but in different ways.
08/21/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
MOSTLY with my lover but I can certainly rock my own world too.
08/21/2011
CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
Best Orgasms are with him, they are just not the same without <3
08/23/2011
cheetahpita cheetahpita
definitely with myself. too much anxiety with a partner.
08/23/2011
emiliaa emiliaa
Well, I have to do it myself every time, but they're always better after sex. ^_^
08/23/2011
TameTemptress TameTemptress
Faster with myself...but more pleasurable with my husband.
08/23/2011
aimtoplease aimtoplease
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
The best orgasms come when I am with the wife, hands down.
here, here!!
09/01/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
My lover definitely knows my body better than I do, or something, because I can't even get close to the orgasms he gives me on my own.
09/01/2011
That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I don't even bother to waste time masturbating. The real deal (with her, obviously) is much better.
09/01/2011
Illumin8 Illumin8
Always the best with my wife, no questions asked.
09/10/2011
domsub1993 domsub1993
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
Yep, definitely with him.
09/10/2011
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
they're all amazing. the only thing that makes them less intense is when i'm trying to be discreet (in public), but that applies to solo and duo stuff.
09/10/2011
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
They're so much more intense and I get so much wetter with him.
09/10/2011
Anonymous.Brunette Anonymous.Brunette
Yeah, my orgasms are better when I'm flying solo.
09/11/2011
cocomo cocomo
i miss him if im alone always better together
09/19/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
They are much better with my partner. I don't know why either. Its like he does things I couldnt do alone.
09/19/2011
Mike Honcho Mike Honcho
The best is with my girlfriend. AMAZING!
11/14/2011
GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I opted for 'better by myself' because I can only get there by my own doings, whether he's helping out or not.
11/14/2011
spnkegrl spnkegrl
I have a much better orgasm with my boyfriend, but alone I can have multiple. Hoping that someday I can have multiple with my boyfriend too.
11/15/2011
Art & Sensation Art & Sensation
I have longer and more intense orgasms with my partner, but sometimes stimulating myself manually gets very close!

If I'd have the choice, I'd always go with having fun with my love.
11/17/2011
mistre$$ mistre$$
Depends.
11/18/2011
LAndJ LAndJ
He doesn't stop when it starts getting so intense it hurts, alone, when it gets unbearable, it's too easy to slow it down.
11/23/2011
Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
With my lover I can give up a certain kind of control that I seem to otherwise involuntarily place on myself. My hands down strongest orgasms have been clitoral orgasms by his fingers (for the longest time I was convinced that I could only get off with tongue!), and it's especially fun when I'm standing up and I have to grip onto him lest I collapse. I would love to try it with suspension someday
11/29/2011
Tangerine Tangerine
Always better with my girlfriend. She is amazing!
12/09/2011
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
Better with my lover. There is alot more excitement when you are with someone else. Alone you predict what you are going to do and how to do things, but with someone else there is always the feeling of "Whats going to happen next?" and not knowing that really intensifies things.
04/03/2012
cepl5869 cepl5869
better with the gf
04/03/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
Always better with my boyfriend.
04/03/2012
Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
While I love my toys and my own time with myself, there's nothing like the edge that intimacy lends
04/03/2012
Deeder Deeder
Either way, I know it won't happen.
10/20/2012
pirata pirata
better with my bf lol
10/20/2012
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