Edging for Ladies

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Edging for Ladies

Bubba29 Bubba29
Edging is the practice of bringing yourself close to orgasm then stopping stimulation for a short period then starting again. I wonder, ladies do any of you do this and do you have tips for the most effective way to do it? How many times do you stop before allowing yourself to orgasm? Any more tips I could use with my wife?
04/11/2013
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*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
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Originally posted by Bubba29
Edging is the practice of bringing yourself close to orgasm then stopping stimulation for a short period then starting again. I wonder, ladies do any of you do this and do you have tips for the most effective way to do it? How many times do you ...
I have had this happen without wanting it to I can't do the "edging" thing as once I reach point of orgasm its either now or never. Well not never but it takes a good amount of time to get it built back up. I am a multiple orgasmer once the first once comes there are several more behind it. I enjoy each and every orgasm an enjoy them just the same. I have never had a reason to stop them on purpose or for the fun of it. Usually it is because stimulation stopped not because I wanted it but because my partner was tired or they finished long before so I went for my toys an had to take a while to build one back up.
04/11/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I do sometimes on my own. I'll get close once or twice and then I just have to give in. When my husband and I are playing together he never stops. It takes me a little longer with him and it seems like he's always just wanting to have it be done with.
04/11/2013
FieryRed FieryRed
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
I do sometimes on my own. I'll get close once or twice and then I just have to give in. When my husband and I are playing together he never stops. It takes me a little longer with him and it seems like he's always just wanting to have it ...
He just wants it to be done with? How sexy.
04/11/2013
js250 js250
I am writing an article for Sexis on this. We do this a lot....too fun!!!
04/12/2013
indiglo indiglo
Once or twice of getting close and pulling back. If we try to do it more than that I start to get frustrated. LOL The payoff is soooooo worth it!!
04/12/2013
indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by js250
I am writing an article for Sexis on this. We do this a lot....too fun!!!
Ooh, I look forward to reading it. Great topic! It is a LOT of fun, isn't it?
04/12/2013
Virgingasms Virgingasms
Not until recently, but my Ella is great for it! It was an unexpected plus for that toy.
04/12/2013
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by Bubba29
Edging is the practice of bringing yourself close to orgasm then stopping stimulation for a short period then starting again. I wonder, ladies do any of you do this and do you have tips for the most effective way to do it? How many times do you ...
This exact question was asked pretty recently, so if you do a search (in the search bar above) then you might find more answers that way. As far as I remembered, it was a pretty big discussion where a lot of people shared their experiences with edging, so you might find it useful. Sorry I don't have the link, but will find it if you can't and really wanna read.

I do it quite often, but never for too long at a time. I've done it too long once and ended up ruining it and wasn't able to orgasm! Don't know why it happened, but now I just do what feels natural -- let it build a few minutes then let it happen. Sometimes longer, but never a very drastic amount of time. I might would try doing it for a longer amount of time after we'd finished up, just to experiment, but that way it doesn't ruin the orgasms for either of us. Perhaps that's the key -- experimenting after the orgasms have came (naturally) so that accidents don't happen and your orgasms don't end up ruined.
04/12/2013
kendra30752 kendra30752
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Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
I have had this happen without wanting it to I can't do the "edging" thing as once I reach point of orgasm its either now or never. Well not never but it takes a good amount of time to get it built back up. I am a multiple orgasmer once ...
Me too! Maybe this (being a multiple orgasmer) has something to do with not always being able to let it build without it ruining it. Because this is about exactly like how things go for me too. My orgasms are one right after the other -- never ending unless something becomes painful or uncomfortable. And I too have trouble edging for too long at a time. I know when I've reached the limit and it just happens. If I forcefully hold it back, I might not orgasm at all afterward, and that's SO unusual! Strange. Maybe the multiple orgasms are linked to both of us having the edging troubles! Interesting because I'm one of the only people I've ever even heard of who has multiples and also can't edge for super long periods of time!
04/12/2013
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I do this all the time when masturbating. I've skirted the edge of orgasm for hours. Not sure a partner could do it to me. It's a fine line. If you edge a little too far you can release all that stored tension in an unsatisfying way ruining the orgasm. When I do it with my boyfriend, I need to be on top. Having good control is important.
04/30/2013
Clock Chime Clock Chime
Very interesting! Must try.
05/16/2013
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I do it sometimes. It's fun, though it can be hard to convince myself not to go for that orgasm when I can feel that it's close. I usually just do it once or twice before letting myself come, sometimes more.
05/16/2013
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