How long have you ABSTAINED from SEX?

Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I have read so much in various Discussions and Polls here in the community about how we love sex! It is like we can’t get enough of it or we are engaged in it almost daily! I would like to reverse the question and ask, how long have you abstained ... More
The longest I've gone without masturbation/sex ever since I been sexually active is about 2 weeks.
04/15/2012
gatewoodr gatewoodr
I just had it this afternoon I can't go without it.
04/15/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I feel like three weeks was a low number to put as the highest option.
04/15/2012
GONE! GONE!
That entirely depends on one's definition of sexual activity.
04/15/2012
Mistressdead Mistressdead
I've gone about two months without masturbating at all, but this was due to a heavy break up that I had in the past, which not only left me sexually frustrated but also left me not wanting to do anything. This was also during a time when I had been in the hospital for getting ill and breaking a finger! Once I was back to myself I really needed the "me" time!
04/24/2012
blondie blondie
probably like 6 months not counting oral.
04/24/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
with the right person..never would dream of being abstinent
04/24/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I have read so much in various Discussions and Polls here in the community about how we love sex! It is like we can’t get enough of it or we are engaged in it almost daily! I would like to reverse the question and ask, how long have you abstained ... More
More than a year
04/26/2012
Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
My girlfriend and I are long distance right now, so it's usually a span of 4-8 months in between.
05/14/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
More than a year
Your answer and the one started by 'Allison.Wilder' speaks to the Poll I offered here to see if a correlations exists on this subject which is more common than we realize.

I have made a link to her question: Do All Men Masturbate?. This is interesting information!
05/20/2012
Kitka Kitka
Long distance relationships make for long periods of time in between seeing each other, so a few months at a time for me.
05/20/2012
Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
The longest I've went without sex or masturbating was two months.I just wasn't in the mood to masturbate.I didn't know I was going that long.
05/20/2012
pinkpetals pinkpetals
Ive gone two weeks with no orgasms...just sort of as a test to see if I could.
05/23/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
9 months
05/24/2012
quackbuster quackbuster
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I have read so much in various Discussions and Polls here in the community about how we love sex! It is like we can’t get enough of it or we are engaged in it almost daily! I would like to reverse the question and ask, how long have you abstained ... More
I actually just realized today that it's been almost a year since I've had partnered sex (I went through a bad breakup & am not the type do casual flings & still don't feel emotionally capable with trying a relationship again) & six months since I've even kissed anyone!

But I'm a bit of a masturbation addict & I think the longest I've ever been without touching myself is 9 days. I start getting overly stressed & get to the point where I can't think about anything but sex constantly if I don't do it at least once every other day.
05/24/2012
pinkpetals pinkpetals
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Originally posted by quackbuster
I actually just realized today that it's been almost a year since I've had partnered sex (I went through a bad breakup & am not the type do casual flings & still don't feel emotionally capable with trying a relationship again) ... More
9 days is kind of tough. I have lasted 14
05/24/2012
Amber1w Amber1w
Both times I was pregnant I didn't have sex the whole 9 months and then 2-3 months after birth: so 2yrs just not the same time first time was 7yrs ago and the second was 3yrs ago
05/28/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
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Originally posted by pinkpetals
Ive gone two weeks with no orgasms...just sort of as a test to see if I could.
Just like in the movie "40 Days and 40 Nights", it is an issue of 'mind over matter' or pleasure in this case. It is a matter of willpower to control yourself. Unlike other posts made here, regarding relationship break-ups or during a woman's 9 months of a pregnancy, it is difficult!
06/22/2012
funluvinmama funluvinmama
3 months, because hubby was a truck driver and gone from home for 3 months at a time.
06/22/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
id say maybe 4 days
06/23/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I went 7 months without sex after I left my first husband...but masturbation..haha...I think TOPS from the time I first started was three weeks and that was ONCE!
06/23/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
I went without sex or masturbation for about a week and a half or so after the birth of my first baby. We engaged a lot sooner with subsequent children.

I'm not good at going a long time without orgasm. I get irritable and confused and miserable.
06/23/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I had to abstain during my pregnancy with my youngest because I had placental previa where the baby wasn't in the right position.
06/23/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I went without sex or masturbation for about a week and a half or so after the birth of my first baby. We engaged a lot sooner with subsequent children.

I'm not good at going a long time without orgasm. I get irritable and confused and miserable.
Now that I think about it, I think I went about 2 weeks at one point when I had BV. It was so painful, I couldn't even think about being touched there.
06/23/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
Seven months, the boyfriend was away for training.
06/23/2012
Anne Anne
I go without sex unintentionally because I'm depressed or stressed with school... or some other reasons unexplained. I just space it sometimes.
06/29/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
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Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
9 months
It would seem that women, in general, have more staying power than say men. So maybe in the movie "40 Days and 40 Nights" it was just more fiction than reality!
07/06/2012
LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
Haha...weeks?! That ain't shit! I haven't had sex in almost seven years! It's very lame and I barely began masturbating again last year. I'm surprised I didn't blow my fucking head off...
08/18/2012
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I have gone 24+ years. I'm a virgin
08/18/2012
goo goo
I think abstained when I was still a teenager. Pretty much the time when I was trying to find myself. Got into religion, different ones here and there and ended up abstaining for about 8 weeks. After that I really didn't care and started masturbating again.
08/18/2012
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