A guy I've been dating says he never masturbates. Is that even possible?
Do all men masturbate?
05/19/2012
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Before me, my significant other did not masturbate because he was brought up to think that it was bad. He's 41.
Even after me, he's only masturbated roughly three times on his own (not including mutual masturbation which we do often).
That said, most other men I know masturbate, but they tend to be younger than my SO. Perhaps it's an age thing.
Even after me, he's only masturbated roughly three times on his own (not including mutual masturbation which we do often).
That said, most other men I know masturbate, but they tend to be younger than my SO. Perhaps it's an age thing.
05/19/2012
Meh. I'm sure there are people out there who don't masturbate, especially if they're brought up in a super religious setting.
05/19/2012
It is possible - but I'm not sure I get why it matters. If he's a great guy I'm sure the issue will cease to be important.
05/19/2012
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It's possible...
Originally posted by
Allison.Wilder
A guy I've been dating says he never masturbates. Is that even possible?
05/19/2012
I would agree it is possible for religious reasons, but wow, I wouldn't be able to survive. More power to him I suppose if he is being honest.
05/19/2012
Some men don't, so that may be true.
05/19/2012
I know at least one guy who hasn't masturbated in his life (he's in his early 20's). Also, my partner didn't until he was about 18, and still avoids it like the plague. Both came from extremely religious families, so that probably has something to do with it either way, there's a chance this guy could be telling the truth!
05/19/2012
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Exactly, I have known some who never pleasured themselves...
Originally posted by
Master DarkWolf
Some men don't, so that may be true.
05/19/2012
My boyfriend did when he was super young but hasn't since he hit puberty. He's tried a few times but it just isn't something he's interested in. It's certainly possible!
05/19/2012
It is certainly possible, all studies indicate there is a small percentage of men who do not masturbate. The other possibility is he is uncomfortable discussing and admitting it.
05/19/2012
It is possible due to his personal feelings, beliefs and what he was taught when he was younger. Maybe he just has no desire to self-satisfy, I used to be that way until I was about 23.
05/20/2012
I think it's more men who are married that I talk to that say they don't masturbate...but all single males I know do...
05/20/2012
He is probably telling the truth, I just have always found it hard to believe it when someone I know say they don't masturbate. I always want to give them a brand new fleshlight and order them to start.
05/20/2012
Definitely possible. The majority of humans masturbate, but there are people who don't.
05/20/2012
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You have raised an interesting question which could have several different answers. As some of the Posts have indicated, it could be on religious grounds or some other reason.
Originally posted by
Allison.Wilder
A guy I've been dating says he never masturbates. Is that even possible?
I had started a Poll along similar lines but included avoiding SEX or MASTURBATION. What I have discover is that it works both ways; both women and men can avoid masturbation for just the same reasons. It is not uncommon but possibly a normal behavior.
Here is a link for anyone to read on How long have you ABSTAINED from SEX? which I started and find quite interesting.
05/20/2012
I have always thought that there were only two kins of men who didn't masturbate cripples and liars.
05/20/2012
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My man says he doesn't masturbate, I believe him... he has no reason to lie.
Originally posted by
Allison.Wilder
A guy I've been dating says he never masturbates. Is that even possible?
05/20/2012
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Harsh. Not every woman in the world does, so why assume every man does?
Originally posted by
Bullfroggy and Rose
I have always thought that there were only two kins of men who didn't masturbate cripples and liars.
05/20/2012
I'm sure that's possible
05/21/2012
My husband doesn't, so he gets a little grumpy when he has to wait too long to have sex with me.
05/23/2012
I think everyone has masturbated at one point in time in their life. But he could be being truthful, but he could be lying too.
05/23/2012
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Any sexually aware individual who doesn't masturbate must be suppressing their desires. A healthy sex life should include masturbation not only for oneself, but, their partner(s). Helps to understand pleasure - receiving and giving. Makes for a better lover!
Originally posted by
Allison.Wilder
A guy I've been dating says he never masturbates. Is that even possible?
05/23/2012
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yes i belive so thay try to say thay dont but i know thay do
Originally posted by
Allison.Wilder
A guy I've been dating says he never masturbates. Is that even possible?
05/23/2012
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sure it's possible to not masturbate.
Originally posted by
Allison.Wilder
A guy I've been dating says he never masturbates. Is that even possible?
very unlikely that someone would have NEVER masturbated... but sure it's possible to 'never masturbate' as in not do it anymore. on any sort of regular basis.
05/23/2012
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Good point. Personally, some men find it too personal to talk about.
Originally posted by
pootpootpoot
I know at least one guy who hasn't masturbated in his life (he's in his early 20's). Also, my partner didn't until he was about 18, and still avoids it like the plague. Both came from extremely religious families, so that probably has
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I know at least one guy who hasn't masturbated in his life (he's in his early 20's). Also, my partner didn't until he was about 18, and still avoids it like the plague. Both came from extremely religious families, so that probably has something to do with it either way, there's a chance this guy could be telling the truth!
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05/23/2012
I know not everyone does, though it doesn't make a lot of sense. There's practical benefits to reducing lust.
05/24/2012
Anything is possible no matter how unlikely.
05/24/2012
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I want to say that everyone masturbates but it is possible he's telling the truth
Originally posted by
Allison.Wilder
A guy I've been dating says he never masturbates. Is that even possible?
05/28/2012
I'm gonna go with everyone masturbates. If they have hands and aren't paralyzed down below then they masturbate.
05/29/2012