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Answering for my husband. He'll let me know if what I'm doing doesn't make him feel good, and I'm totally all right with that; I'll do the same if whatever he does to me is not to my liking also. Good communication = good sex.
Absolutely agree, in part.
I would however, be kind and give guidance and instruction on how to do it the way I
like it. I would of course, expect the same sort of guidance from my partner.
It would be, I think... impolite to actually say that your partner is "bad" at something so giving on their part.