Bad oral - would you stay or go?

indiechick indiechick
If on your first few dates with a new partner you discovered that they SUCKED at oral sex would you stay and train or run away?
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Stay and train
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56  (100%)
Run away
Total votes: 56
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05/06/2012
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Antipova Antipova
I don't really like receiving oral anyway, so this would be a non-issue for me. Stay, not even train
05/06/2012
Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
depends on how eager they are to learn.
05/06/2012
Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
i voted stay and train. but that is hard to say. Honestly, it is depending on if you really like this person. If you think there is a future. If you do .. no matter how bad they are .. they can learn...
05/06/2012
ghalik ghalik
If that were their only flaw I'd be mighty pleased.

If they weren't great otherwise, I wouldn't waste my time.
05/06/2012
Rossie Rossie
Stay and train, unless that person isn't willing to improve at all, then it's time to rethink whether you care to stay with that person, with or without good cunnilingus in your future.
05/06/2012
Kissy Kissy
There hasn't been one I haven't trained!!!!!!!!!!!! Everyone is different! Takes getting used to, gotta give em a break!
05/06/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by indiechick
If on your first few dates with a new partner you discovered that they SUCKED at oral sex would you stay and train or run away?
I'd stay and train I think.
05/06/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by indiechick
If on your first few dates with a new partner you discovered that they SUCKED at oral sex would you stay and train or run away?
I'd stay and train no doubt. It wouldnt' be a big deal at all to me.
05/06/2012
ksparkles16 ksparkles16
Stay and train...
05/07/2012
indiechick indiechick
I must admit I'm kind of surprised by this. I've done it once, but if it was super early in the relationship, I don't know if I'd do it again
05/07/2012
Peggi Peggi
If I actually liked the person, I'd train. Everyone could use pointers from time to time too, because different people like different things.
05/07/2012
Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
If it were super early in the relationship and I wasn't invested, that could be enough to make me go. But if we were hitting it off, I love training my boys to do things properly down there.
05/07/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
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Originally posted by Sex Positivity
If it were super early in the relationship and I wasn't invested, that could be enough to make me go. But if we were hitting it off, I love training my boys to do things properly down there.
I agree.
05/07/2012
Undead Undead
I wouldn't leave because of that.
05/07/2012
meezerosity meezerosity
I'm not really a big fan of receiving oral so I'd be fine to just not engage at all.
05/07/2012
Fawkes Fawkes
leaving would be rude....
05/07/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I wouldn't leave someone just for that reason. Give it some time... DH's and my sex life has improved 1000% since we started.
05/07/2012
Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
Stay and train if they're willing to learn!
05/07/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
IMO, sex is one of the most important things in a relationship. Oral sex, for me (and happily for My Man) is one of the most important parts of sex.

I would give "training" a try. But, really, if I NEED oral sex to get off, to feel sex is worth the trouble, to enjoy myself. I also love offering oral sex to a partner.

I've had partners who weren't into giving oral sex. There's a difference between someone who doesn't know how to give oral sex and is willing to learn, and someone who doesn't like to give it. The former, I might stay to work with, the latter, forget it.

Some things can't be left out of a relationship. Oral sex is one of those things.
05/07/2012
Sangsara Sangsara
everybody's body is different and we all like different things. there are those techniques which seem to be universal but my lovers and I really need to learn eachothers bodies first so ya I'd stay and teach and be taught
05/07/2012
Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
IMO, sex is one of the most important things in a relationship. Oral sex, for me (and happily for My Man) is one of the most important parts of sex.

I would give "training" a try. But, really, if I NEED oral sex to get off, to feel ... More
I'm with you on this. I NEED oral sex too. If someone doesn't like it or want to give it. They are not the person for me. I would give training a try, but the rest would depend on how training went.
05/07/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by indiechick
If on your first few dates with a new partner you discovered that they SUCKED at oral sex would you stay and train or run away?
If I really liked them I would stay and give them some pointers.
05/07/2012
SMichelle SMichelle
If I really liked him, I'd stay. And...if I was willing to let him go down on me, my guess is that I would already really like him.
05/07/2012
Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I would stay and train.
05/07/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
I'm with you on this. I NEED oral sex too. If someone doesn't like it or want to give it. They are not the person for me. I would give training a try, but the rest would depend on how training went.
Yeah. I NEED it... like I need...air.
05/07/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Fawkes
leaving would be rude....
Not being willing to learn proper technique and please your partner is infinitely more rude.

There is nothing more rude than leaving a partner still desiring and needing release.
05/07/2012
Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Yeah. I NEED it... like I need...air.
Me too!! I can't imagine a sex life without oral.
05/07/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
stay and train....what better way to get exactly what you want
05/07/2012
StarFire StarFire
i guess it really depends on how much you like them and if they are willing to learn
05/07/2012
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