Well i do know one thing from all the years i have been giving oral there is about 3 different ways depending on the lady. Some like direct clitoral stimulation then there's the one that almost cant ever handle direct so you you kind of have to lick around the clitoris or to the side can be difficult to bring her to orgasm without practice lol. Then of course there's both direct and indirect start off licking up and down but if you want to make her orgasm you have to zero in on that button indirect or directly depending on the woman and once you see the reactions you get and you find the right spot try to stay there and finish the job. Moving around to much can cause great frustration. The licking bit well that is something you have to experiment with every woman is so different you have to play by your reactions. Do a nice u shape around the clitoris and start to gently help it along its way sucking it out of the hood to make it pop out better then gently start to like kneed it with your tongue slowly increasing pressure and speed. Quick little rapid licks right on it or in the indirect case to the side through the hood. Just so you know i haven't ever failed to make a girl explode in 3-4 minutes >.> and as i said a lot of it takes experimenting due to the varied nature of women. I find asking her what she likes helps the most. less

The only way to learn is to do, every single woman is different so its not like you can prepare and then know what your doing. I have done for many many years and no book is going to give you the magic step by step lol.

The only thing that was consistent in my 16 years of giving oral successfully mind you is the pressure, some like indirect direct or both once u figure that out your golden and it isn't hard to learn that she will probably start to laugh or jerk away whenever you touch her clitoris full out the whole time so she would probably like indirect. That's the first thing you have to either figure out or ask straight up.

I would say the next most important step is once you have her bucking up and in to your mouth most likely your finding the sweet spot which means DON'T move get more intense with it in that spot and make her cum in your face drool.

I like to warm her up by using long full licks of my tongue making it flat try to stay away from just using tip of tongue specially at first it can be to much.

Lick all over like your eating an ice cream cone and then go to her clit and lick it tongue flat and using only the first couple inches of it up and down making swirls and it and when your trying to make her cum start to add pressure stroking your tongue up and down faster and harder you want to increase the pressure slowly so you do not ruin it. Where one day that works tomorrow it may not just so you know.

Always have to pay attention to your partner that is how you truly learn watch her body language and listen to her moans you can tell generally if its getting good for her deep groaning can start even if she quite will be very hard to resist and start to buck up in to your face.

Well thats about all i can say tbh hope it helps less

I think the biggest thing to remember is that every girl is different, we each like different things so paying attention and talking about it is really important. I like my clit being sucked hard by the last girlfriend prefered a light flicking on her clit.

Something that I think everyone needs to know before playing with a girl: trim your nails! I've had some uncomfortable experiences due to long finger nails.

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In my experience, the only constant between all the women is that my tongue was on their clit. The details are unique to each woman. Some like circles, others like flicks, others more stroking. Some like firm and direct, others light and flitting, others around the sides. Some like penetration with my tongue, while others hate it. Some like fingers inside while my tongue is on their clit, thrusting or hitting their g-spot or just filling them. Some like 1, 2, 3, 4 fingers, others don't want anything inside. You're not going to really understand until you do it. Just communicate with the woman you're with and see what she likes. She'll be able to tell you and/or show you better than any book. Variety is good sometimes, switching up your technique, but once she indicates that what you're doing is working really well for her, don't change or stop unless she indicates you should because otherwise, from a receiver's standpoint, it gets really frustrating. Basically, just enjoy it, listen to her and practice, practice, practice. less

As a women i've never really needed to know how to perform oral sex on a nother women. I hope to be able to do so oneday. I want to one day be with a women, and my boyfriend FULLY supports it. I just want to know how to do it. I asked my guy to teach me what he does. It never works, he sucks at explaining things. I'm left on my own. Any of you know any good books off eden I sould look into? Do you have any tips you can pass along my way?

I have posted this in another forum. I'm also posting it here because, I did not know which area was best. To be on the safe side I just posted them in both areas. Please forgive me if we are not allowed to do that. less

As a women i've never really needed to know how to perform oral sex on a nother women. I hope to be able to do so oneday. I want to one day be with a women, and my boyfriend FULLY supports it. I just want to know how to do it. I asked my guy to teach me what he does. It never works, he sucks at explaining things. I'm left on my own. Any of you know any good books off eden I sould look into? Do you have any tips you can pass along my way?

I have posted this in another forum. I'm also posting it here because, I did not know which area was best. To be on the safe side I just posted them in both areas. Please forgive me if we are not allowed to do that. less