Clitoral desensitization

Contributor: lilsexi0479 lilsexi0479
I have a question that i need some advice on. I get very aroused when having sex with my husband it doesn't take much for me to climax. Meaning I can get so aroused just giving him a BJ that i will climax off the pleasure he is getting. But my biggest issue is that I also climax multiple times when we are having sex just by the constant stimulation of my clitoris or deep penetrations. IS there something I can do to take away some of the sensitization of my clit (not all of it) so that i can last just a little be longer and he doesn't "know" i am cumming so often because my muscles get so tight that it makes him cum faster.
02/11/2018
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I have no advice - but would say that thousands - maybe millions of women would love to have the problem you describe!
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Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by lilsexi0479
I have a question that i need some advice on. I get very aroused when having sex with my husband it doesn't take much for me to climax. Meaning I can get so aroused just giving him a BJ that i will climax off the pleasure he is getting. But my ... more
Wow, I completely agree with Gunsmoke. The thing you're calling a 'problem' is actually something most of the women dream about.

The only 'solution' I see here is trying a cooling lube, like JO Clitoral Gel Arctic]
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Contributor: hiseden2253 hiseden2253
Quote:
Originally posted by lilsexi0479
I have a question that i need some advice on. I get very aroused when having sex with my husband it doesn't take much for me to climax. Meaning I can get so aroused just giving him a BJ that i will climax off the pleasure he is getting. But my ... more
Problem?! You seem to be blessed. I would suggest maybe he use a prolonging spray or lube for him, such as Doc Johnson Proloonging spray, Wicked Overtime delay cream for men, The Screaming O Dynamo delay, etc. Or as Lena Eden suggested, a cooling lube.
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