He can't . . . what?

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He can't . . . what?

Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
Boyfriend and I haven't been together for too long. I've only gone down on him once for a few minutes before everything kicked off.

He told me that he's only gotten off once from oral! Whaaaat? I mean, I have to accept the challenge and outdo every other girl he's been with.

My question is . . . is there anything out there to make things more pleasurable for a man during oral? I've read about Good Head and he have a little pack of it I'm going to try but other than that, every sensation product out there for a guy is to desensitize it.
05/16/2011
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Annemarie Annemarie
My significant other hasn't had many orgasms from oral either, and I've learned why... Whenever he's close, the person always changes something, like, how their hand is, the pattern of their tongue or sucking, whatever.

Learn to read his signs for orgasm, and, when he starts exhibiting them, DON'T STOP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING.

Helpful tip.
05/17/2011
K101 K101
Wow! I thought my partner was the only man out there who had a similar thing with this. He doesn't get much pleasure from oral or hand jobs and never has! I don't mind though, he still really enjoys it, but we've spent so much time and only to end up with me having raw lips! Lol. He says he doesn't think it's worth it. I've never had any other guy that didn't get off really quick with oral or a hand job, but some guys just prefer other things. My BF would rather have real sex with me anyday.
05/17/2011
Vaccinium Vaccinium
I've never had an orgasm via oral sex. In my case, I suspect it has been an issue with being with...well...less than skilled partners, but at this point it's entirely possible I've formed a complex about it and it will simply never happen.
05/17/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
Poprocks.

No, don't do that.
Be enthusiastic. My guy thought I was insane when I first said oral could be the main event. Now he can't get enough of the idea. When I ask him why, he says it's because I'm being all selfless and enthusiastic about it. So yeah, that's my only advice.

And it is irritating they don't have sensitizing lotions for men. Maybe a tingling lubricant? Would that end up making your mouth tingly? Or a warming lubricant...?
05/17/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
Try perineum massage before oral. It gets the blood and semen flowing. I reccommend this all the time and it has never failed me.
05/17/2011
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
Boyfriend and I haven't been together for too long. I've only gone down on him once for a few minutes before everything kicked off.

He told me that he's only gotten off once from oral! Whaaaat? I mean, I have to accept the ...
wow! i give my husband a blow job everytime we have intimate time but i don't let him cum in my mouth much cuz of past assault it makes me nervous.but im not sure, i have good head gel i havent used it alot though
05/18/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I've only cum once from a blow job and it was with my ex. I haven't been able to since.
05/19/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
I just got the Tasty Twist oral-gasm enhancing balm. It tastes great and enhances the sensations a little bit. It is inexpensive as well. My husband says it makes him more sensitive and he cums quicker. link
05/19/2011
ac0313 ac0313
I cannot orgasm from just oral either, never have. My SO is an oral specialist, as proclaimed by her prior partners. She has even caused a second pop within minutes of starting from other guys who told her they could not cum twice at all!

When she first did oral on me, I think she was surprised that I did not cum, but when I told her I never have, she took it in stride. In fact, she has NOT made it a mission of hers to get me to orgasm...this is because she gives oral because SHE loves it! I believe I built up a mental block many years ago when a prior GF gagged and almost regurgitaed while giving my a bj.

Some day, I may ask my SO to do what ever she wants/can to get me off because I would love the sensation of her taking me in the back of her throat and swallowing every drop.
05/19/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
Last night I decided to give it another try with some Good Head. Even though the stuff was sticky and the mint flavor reminded me of the dentist he had a blast . . . almost! Haha!

He told me he was super close and that he thinks I may be the one to do it. I told him it seemed like it was a sword in the stone type scenario . . . except a bit different.
05/20/2011
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