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I don't know... I'm ok with the idea of ATM, but rimming and such I feel a little more iffy about. I'm weird ¬_¬
Wow..this is an interesting turn about on the "usual" (ha, ha...as if there were such a thing). My hubby and I, love rimming, and have for years. ATM seems "stretching the envelope" for some odd reason. We have a group of tight friends who do dinner and TALK (only talk) about sex, and they all felt the same way. We posted a discussion about this a few weeks back and it seemed a lot of folks are into rimming (more outside, can clean up well...etc), verses ATM (cannot control bacteria count...etc.) Far fewer liked the idea of ATM be it on partners penis, finger, toy..whatever. Most were "fine" with oral/anal. SO...got to ask, have you actually DONE ATM, when you say "okay with the idea"? Just curious.