Is oral sex a must in your sex life

Contributor: mastersonv mastersonv
I'm not huge into oral being done on me and wondered how many others were.
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Insightful topic debates on Oral sex enhancers:

What do you like during oral sex?
What do you like your partner to do during oral sex? I personaly enjoy being kissed and licked.

Is oral sex a priority in foreplay?
Do you need to receive/give some oral to really get you going?

Clitoral desensitization
I have a question that i need some advice on. I get very aroused when having sex with my husband it doesn't take much for me to climax. Meaning I can.

Any advice for practicing deep throating?
I'm looking for tips, or techniques to practice to get deeper.

How to keep up the pace buring a blow job?
I wish I could give a better BJ, but it is so much work on my back, neck and jaw. How do I keep up the pace?
12/16/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I like having oral done as long as they know what they're doing, otherwise it's just a waste of time.
12/16/2011
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
If you know exactly what your doing, it can be great; for both people involved!
12/16/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Right, if your partner knows how to please you and does everything correctly, oral sex will make you feel like you're in seventh heaven!
12/16/2011
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
Totally agree with that! If he/she is knowledgeable on how to do it, it can be great! Though, sometimes I'm just not feeling it, regardless of how awesome my husband is at it. I have issues relaxing sometimes.
12/16/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by Daemonin
Totally agree with that! If he/she is knowledgeable on how to do it, it can be great! Though, sometimes I'm just not feeling it, regardless of how awesome my husband is at it. I have issues relaxing sometimes.
Try to have a few sips of wine before you start, a bit of wine will help you relax, don't get drunk though!
12/16/2011
Contributor: mastersonv mastersonv
My so is good at it but I just personally am not comfortable with it.
12/16/2011
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
It'd be a shame not to have my partner's skill in that department all the time. It isn't necessary but I always want it.
12/16/2011
Contributor: 12345678 12345678
I like giving every time I have sex, but I don't much care for receiving.
12/16/2011
Contributor: jc123 jc123
I like giving but not receiving.
12/16/2011
Contributor: meitman meitman
My wife loves to give every time and I say "OK!!!" She's not that into receiving, but she's getting there.
12/16/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
We usually incorporate oral, but not in every single encounter. I do receive almost every time though, he gets is slightly less often than I do.
12/16/2011
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
I give it far more than I receive it. This isn't by choice. But my boyfriend is getting better at being fair, now that he knows how much it hurts me.

It doesn't have to be every time but it's a really nice treat.
12/16/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
Rarely any more. I've mostly lost interest in receiving.
12/16/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I love it, but it doesn't have to happen every time we have sex.
12/16/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I pretty much must give it to my partner every time we have sex. However, I don't get too peeved when I don't get it. I like it once in a while, though.
12/17/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I LOOOOOVE giving head and he's getting it everyday whether we have intercourse or not!
12/17/2011
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Oral is nearly always involved for us, but not needed.
12/17/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I enjoy it (giving and receiving) as part of foreplay.
12/17/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
OMG, LOVE giving and recieving....nice way to start things off. Or finish things off and get ready for round 2!
12/17/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by mastersonv
I'm not huge into oral being done on me and wondered how many others were.
my man does not like giving me oral. but he loves getting it. and sadly I love giving it to him. its like an addiction. I have even went as far as to give him a blow job in his bathroom while his buddie was sitting in the bedroom next door watching a movie..
12/18/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Its lovely but I don't "Need" it.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Giving oral ... I wouldn't say it *has* to be part of every sexual encounter... but it practically is. It's not like I would feel jilted if I wasn't able/allowed to give, but I can't really remember the last time I didn't wind up giving as part of sex.

Receiving, absolutely not a must at all. I've gone entire relationships without it. And I honestly feel better that way, I'm still trying to learn how to get my body to enjoy receiving, and so it's still kind of stressful and makes me feel guilty for not getting off as easily as I can in lots of other ways.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
Giving oral ... I wouldn't say it *has* to be part of every sexual encounter... but it practically is. It's not like I would feel jilted if I wasn't able/allowed to give, but I can't really remember the last time I didn't wind up ... more
Oh, I can too---last time I had a cavity filled, I went to and was like "Wait! Ouch!"
12/18/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
As long as my body is ok to receive oral, then yes I except it. I enjoy oral more than sex sometimes, but I do not have to have it.
12/18/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I love sucking my lover's dick, I'd probably be a little upset if he wouldn't let me. As for me, I don't really need oral, and I'd be perfectly happy never receiving it, but the last time, my lover proved he'd picked up a few tricks, or rather, disregarded the standard advice and used his teeth almost exclusively and it was frankly mind-blowing. I clearly don't give him enough opportunity to demonstrate his skills.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
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Originally posted by meitman
My wife loves to give every time and I say "OK!!!" She's not that into receiving, but she's getting there.
I'm the same as your wife. Giving is fun. Receiving is meh. I especially like him to finish in my mouth.
12/18/2011
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
It's not really a must, but it's nice. I love giving...usually enjoy receiving, but I have to be in the mood for it.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
It can be great but it's not a must.
12/18/2011