Do you have trouble cumming while you are standing?

Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I love to kneel before my husband and give him head. The last time I asked him to let me finish him off that way and he told me he has a really hard time finishing while he is standing up. He said that even doggie style was difficult sometimes but not near as bad as standing. Does anyone else notice an issue with this?
01/10/2011
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Waterfall Waterfall
I have only had an orgasm one while standing and it made me really dizzy. This is something that is very difficult for me in general, and I try to avoid doing so while standing.
01/10/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
No, I don't have a problem but my legs feel like jelly and want to collapse after the orgasm. Have had a few close calls where my face has almost come into contact with the handbasin at the end of the shower/bath .... hehehe.
01/10/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I wish I could answer the question - my wife has never offered, she doesn't like being on her knees - except for dogie style. Once or twice she sat on the bed - but the angles were not great and she had to stop from a sore neck.

Pop a lubes finger in his butt! Maybe that will get him going!
01/10/2011
Rockin' Rockin'
If I'm standing, I can get distracted by trying to stay upright. My legs feel weak and tingly as I get aroused, so when I have to try to balance, it can detract from the experience. It's still fun, but it seems to take longer for me if I'm standing.
01/10/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I wish I could answer the question - my wife has never offered, she doesn't like being on her knees - except for dogie style. Once or twice she sat on the bed - but the angles were not great and she had to stop from a sore neck.

Pop a ... More
I will try it the next time. Don't know why it didn't occur to me before. Duh!
01/10/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Yes I do. I don't like to cum standing. Orgasm makes my legs very wobbly.
01/12/2011
Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I can have a g-spot orgasm standing up but not a clitoral one. It's odd.
01/12/2011
gone77 gone77
I can do it, but it's a pain in the ass and leaves my legs sore. LOL
01/12/2011
Alura Une Alura Une
I'm a female, and I think it's generally less easy for females to come standing? Or maybe not. Maybe at least less comfortable. I'm seeing talk of wobbly-legs. I don't think I can get the sort of stimulation I need while standing up to come during intercourse. Oral stimulation might be hard for me, too, as it generally takes a lot of work for me to finish with that in any position.

My male significant other can come standing up--but seems to prefer the bed. He has always has had trouble in the shower because the area heats up too much during play? We hate feeling really hot while playing.

I think difficulties in some positions come because it's not what we're used to. If I'm not in my favored position, it's distracting when my aim is to come.
01/12/2011
ID42 ID42
I don't really have a problem with climax while standing or kneeling. My legs will get wobbly and weak, but that doesn't keep it from happening. Same for my husband.
01/14/2011
ud328 ud328
Never been a problem for me. Admittedly its been a while, but when it was happening it was actually a very fun way. Me standing, her kneeling, pleasuring me...I felt like royalty! (For the record I bowed down to her as well. )
01/14/2011
Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
Whether having sex or just masturbating, it is harder for me to cum while standing. Especially with sex, and depending on the exact position, having my leg muscles engaged and working seems to keep the orgasm at bay for much longer. When I am really hot, I can cum when standing but it isn't often.
01/14/2011
Lurr Lurr
no, but it is much harder to clean up!
01/14/2011
Oxygen99 Oxygen99
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I love to kneel before my husband and give him head. The last time I asked him to let me finish him off that way and he told me he has a really hard time finishing while he is standing up. He said that even doggie style was difficult sometimes but ... More
My hubby takes a while to cum from oral while standing. He like to get blown standing up to start, but like to be lying down to finish. He doesn't know why it takes him longer that way.
01/14/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Thanks so much for all your responses. I was most interested in what the men had to say, so I really appreciate that input.
01/15/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I do, but my boyfriend doesn't.
01/15/2011
Solar Ray Solar Ray
I had to think a bit but I don't think I have an issue cumming in any position. I do know doggy-style is an extra super mega turn on so cumming in that position is extra easy for me... I have to work hard to hold off in that position.
02/21/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
My legs won't hold me up long enough for me to get to orgasm while standing. They go all weak on me.
02/22/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
I don't really have any problems with it, although it does take me longer.
02/22/2011
Megan McClure Megan McClure
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Originally posted by BadassFatass
My legs won't hold me up long enough for me to get to orgasm while standing. They go all weak on me.
It took me some practice but I can do it now..its fun!
09/09/2012
Megan McClure Megan McClure
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Originally posted by BadassFatass
My legs won't hold me up long enough for me to get to orgasm while standing. They go all weak on me.
It took me some practice but I can do it now..its fun!
09/09/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
I have a problem, remaining standing requires too much attention for me
09/09/2012
AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
I have a problem but my guy doesn't. If I'm giving him a BJ while he's standing, he does have to lean on something to keep his balance once we get going, though.
09/10/2012
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I love to kneel before my husband and give him head. The last time I asked him to let me finish him off that way and he told me he has a really hard time finishing while he is standing up. He said that even doggie style was difficult sometimes but ... More
my husband has this problem too
11/24/2012
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I love to kneel before my husband and give him head. The last time I asked him to let me finish him off that way and he told me he has a really hard time finishing while he is standing up. He said that even doggie style was difficult sometimes but ... More
This is something that I have never heard of, but maybe this is something that can happen. Especially with guys.
11/24/2012
Megan McClure Megan McClure
My legs start to shake as I get close to orgasm. they just start to go weak and wobble. i have to really concentrate on not collapsing when i cum.
12/29/2012
evie.amor evie.amor
Yes, it's almost impossible for me.
12/29/2012
Septimus Septimus
I don't think I've ever cum standing up before. I think I've tried, but it just wasn't my thing. That's not to say that it wasn't fun!
12/29/2012
nikki0668 nikki0668
I have no problem cumming while standing.
12/29/2012
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