Shaving and oral sex...

Contributor: MJ7 MJ7
I know a lot of people won't go down on girls who aren't shaved down below. Including my partner.

I generally keep well-groomed, but shaving makes me sensitive down there so sometimes I wait a while between grooming sessions. During these times, my partner has expressed that he doesn't want to perform oral on me if there is "hair down there".

I found this kind of silly, since I really only enjoy having my clit stimulated and having my, shall we say, more-intimate rather-hairless-to-beg in-with parts to be paid attention to.

Going down on guys, I know it's not like getting a mouthful of fur, but COME ON. I am guaranteed to get a few hairs in my mouth. And at most, that's all he would get in his mouth too. A couple of stray hairs.

Is it too much to ask to have the favour returned?
09/13/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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09/13/2012
Contributor: soccer soccer
Quote:
Originally posted by MJ7
I know a lot of people won't go down on girls who aren't shaved down below. Including my partner.

I generally keep well-groomed, but shaving makes me sensitive down there so sometimes I wait a while between grooming sessions. During ... more
No one wants pubes in there mouth, guys or girls!
09/13/2012
Contributor: MJ7 MJ7
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Originally posted by soccer
No one wants pubes in there mouth, guys or girls!
No, I imagine nobody likes hair in mouth. But my point is that it's inevitable either way.
09/13/2012
Contributor: joelb42 joelb42
I don't see the big deal with it. If you get a hair in your mouth pull it out and keep on going. Hair no hair it does not matter to me. I will lick my wife when ever she wants me to.
09/13/2012
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
I totally get where you are coming from. I shave but can only do so every other day because my skin gets easily irritated, while my hair grows coarse and thick. My bf has a major ball bush and I just pick hairs out of my teeth and don't complain. I think that guys need to get over it.
09/13/2012
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
Shaved is def better but not required. I shave my kitty cuz I like it. Bf likes it too but will still take a trip down there if its a little furry. But to each their own...
09/13/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
I think trimmed is reasonable. Shaven is not
09/13/2012
Contributor: MJ7 MJ7
Thanks for all the feedback guys! It's really interesting to see how everyone feels about this.
09/14/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by MJ7
I know a lot of people won't go down on girls who aren't shaved down below. Including my partner.

I generally keep well-groomed, but shaving makes me sensitive down there so sometimes I wait a while between grooming sessions. During ... more
A little hair either way is alright, just no wildman or amazon woman. Keep the jungle in check.
09/14/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I shave for my own personal reasons not because a partner refused to go down on me if I was hairy. I can only shave once a week or I get bad razor burn and what not. I have had one partner who wanted me to grow it out because he LOVED a hairy vagina, I tried it for him and I personally didn't like it. I don't like getting hair in my mouth but just like the others have said pull it out and keep going. I mean I guess I am lucky enough to get men who trim. If they aren't returning the favor I would stop giving to them til they would. It isn't fair to you to always give and not give. I have been there and done that an it was NOT the best relationship.
09/14/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by MJ7
I know a lot of people won't go down on girls who aren't shaved down below. Including my partner.

I generally keep well-groomed, but shaving makes me sensitive down there so sometimes I wait a while between grooming sessions. During ... more
I try to keep things "neat" for my wife down there, so I expect the same. She doesn't have to shave completely, but I do like it every once in a while...
09/15/2012
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
My guy prefers me to be shaved, but it really don't matter to him.
12/06/2012
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
Quote:
Originally posted by MJ7
I know a lot of people won't go down on girls who aren't shaved down below. Including my partner.

I generally keep well-groomed, but shaving makes me sensitive down there so sometimes I wait a while between grooming sessions. During ... more
I keep myself trimmed up nice or completely shaved, and when it comes to my woman.. if she doesn't feel like shaving she doesn't have to, but I am always up for shaving her, massaging everything with oil, and then when she is nice and turned on because of all the touching and rubbing having a nice snack
12/06/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
My hubby doesn't mind whether I shave or trim. My second partner would rather I not shave because of stubble issues, so I'm content to just trim.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Croc Croc
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Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
My hubby doesn't mind whether I shave or trim. My second partner would rather I not shave because of stubble issues, so I'm content to just trim.
partner, meaning a lover in addition to husband?
09/25/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
If you want me to lick it, you gotta shave it. Whether it's a vagina, dick, or testicles.

I felt really bad once when I wouldn't go down on a woman who didn't shave at ALL. I just couldn't bring myself to do it. I've never been with a woman who didn't shave.

As far as sensitivity to shaving, I shave with hair conditioner instead of shaving cream and it keeps my skin from getting irritated.
09/26/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Quote:
Originally posted by Croc
partner, meaning a lover in addition to husband?
Just in case the poster doesn't respond because that was an old post I may be able to answer for them.

They might be poly or a swinger. I myself am in an open relationship and consider myself poly even though I currently only have one sexual partner.
09/26/2019