Are you nervous when having sex for the first time with a new partner?

noway noway
What are you nervous about?
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My partner won't like my body.
22
I won't like my partner's body.
3
I'm worried about my performance.
17
I'm worried about my partner pleasing me.
5
I'm worried about pleasing my partner.
14
Total votes: 61 (34 voters)
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03/19/2013
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PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
New experiences are always scary, especially ones that are so intimate. I worried about them not liking my body, worried about whether or not I would please them and how things would turn out with the relationship if I couldn't. Probably silly things to concern myself with since it's always turned out fine, but I think it's pretty common.
03/19/2013
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Oh yes! Very! Nervous he won't like my body, worried about my performance and pleasing my partner.
03/19/2013
surreptitious surreptitious
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Originally posted by noway
What are you nervous about?
Sometimes I'm nervous even beyond the first time! I guess that I'm sort of a self-conscious person, but it doesn't stop me from enjoying myself, so I've never tried to fix it.
03/19/2013
rihanne rihanne
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Originally posted by noway
What are you nervous about?
yeah.
03/20/2013
chicmichiw chicmichiw
Incompatibility is always an issue.
03/20/2013
bratcat bratcat
im always kind of worried about it, especially with my weigh and body "issues" that i experience, luckily my partner and i went from kind of awkward sex to now having great fantastic amazing sex.
03/20/2013
Zombirella Zombirella
I worry about my body, I have self esteem issues I wasn't really thinking about that much though with my fiance the first time. He just made me feel.....comfortable.
03/20/2013
woodsdragon woodsdragon
I definitely worry about my body
03/20/2013
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by noway
What are you nervous about?
Usually its just a performance fear.
03/20/2013
shnsmth6 shnsmth6
Quote:
Originally posted by noway
What are you nervous about?
worried about my performance, and if i'm big enough for her
03/20/2013
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by shnsmth6
worried about my performance, and if i'm big enough for her
Pretty much how I feel too.
03/20/2013
The Vixen The Vixen
I don't get nervous about our bodies or performance.
If anything I worry about me being able to let go and enjoy myself. I'm not able to finish the first few (or dozen) times I'm with somebody new because I get so emotionally wrapped up in the experience.
03/20/2013
MrWood MrWood
I've always had anxiety and performance fears when being with a new partner for the first couple of times. Once I get past the nervousness of pleasing them, it's always been great though.
03/22/2013
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
Though I do worry about my performance, I think I worry a little more about their performance. I know if the sex is meh it can get better, but if they're amazing from the start...well, it's good for morale, because I'll have the incentive and eagerness to get them in bed again, meaning MY performance will be better because I'm so looking forward to it.
03/22/2013
Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by noway
What are you nervous about?
I am just worried he has a small dick.
03/22/2013
musicownsmysoul musicownsmysoul
My low self-esteem would get in the way and I'd end up not really enjoying it. Although the last time I had sex with someone new we were both under the influence of alcohol and all we really did was he ate me out and we spent the rest of the night talking. Two weeks of talking of no sex later we started dating. That was a year ago.
03/23/2013
mdnght mdnght
I worry about my body and my performance...
03/23/2013
Gleb Gleb
I'm worried about my performance.
03/28/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
I'm not particularly worried...excited is the word.
03/28/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Yes, I get nervous.
03/28/2013
kaylajoy89 kaylajoy89
it's always scary/exciting the fisrt time
03/29/2013
KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
I have always been rather insecure about not only looks but how good I am and I they will enjoy it or not.
07/08/2013
KitKat16 KitKat16
Is it strange I'm never worried about my performance? I feel pretty secure in that I know what to do and I'm always eager to please a partner...I get more anxious about giving up control, relaxing and letting someone else take the reigns over me. It has always been the biggest struggle...
07/10/2013
Total posts: 24
Unique posters: 24