Does Size Matter?

Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
There's definitely too big and too small, and then there's...just right.
09/03/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
I've had a guy who was "too big" and it was as much NOT fun as someone WAY, WAY too small, I guess. However, most men I have found are about "normal" and so it is really the WAY they use their gifts that make it or break it...for me, anyway.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Jul!a
For me, bigger hurts. I much prefer the average to smaller size guy
Bingo. Been there. Agree.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Alicia
I think men have this idea that "the norm" is a lot larger than it actually is. A lot of men who think they're small are actually average.
Many "polls" have shown this to be VERY true. Most GUYS seem to want MORE then whatever they do have.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by sbon
I think it all depends on how it is used and combined with other activities
Indeed. Cannot forget the OTHER activities skills.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Shellz31
As long as the guy knows how to use it properly, then it's all good.

Although, I don't like guys who are overly long - my cervix doesn't like being rammed into next week!
Been there. Just hurts...no fun. For some reason, SOME guys built insanely long THINK that a girl wants to "appreciate" how "awesome" they are..and tend to NOT be gentle loves. I had TWO that way.
12/22/2011
Contributor: cathy23 cathy23
Size matters if you are not used to a larger penis. At least for me it took some time to adapt
12/22/2011
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
Size matters to me in that there is a too big for me label out there. It's crazy some guys think they are "too small" when they are average or slightly above average. You guys are great! My husband feels that way all the time, but I guess it's society pressure.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I think it matters sometimes... there's definitely TOO big and too small.. and I've also been with smaller ones that didn't know how to use it and larger ones that did.
02/03/2012
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
I think it's more how you use however I'm sure there is to small as well as to big for comfort
02/03/2012
Contributor: leelee leelee
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Originally posted by Envy
It's how you use it, duh!
agreed
02/04/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
It's definitely in how you use it! My guy is really large and it's nice that he knows how to keep sex from being painful. But sometimes I do prefer using smaller dildos.
03/18/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Something too big actually can hurt. It's how it's used and proper lubrication I think.
08/13/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
I think it matter 50% of the time depending on the people...
08/14/2012
Contributor: HB042 HB042
Size absolutely matters, depending on what you intend to do with it! I love anal, but my husband is just. so. girthy. It hasn't quite worked yet! I have a hard time going down on him, because according to my dentist, I have a narrow jaw. That, combined with his endowment... it just doesn't always work comfortably. He is thankfully of average length, but he always insists that he'd like "just a little more length.", at which point I inform him that if that were the case, I wouldn't even go near him. He bashes my cervix as it is!
08/14/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I think most of the time it really is what you do with it. I'm right at 6" so not huge, but not small. My wife dated a guy before we got married who was huge but was really bad in bed. She said she'd much rather have mine at 6" and what I do with it than his size and what he did with it. (She could be sparing my feelings, but I do think this is true.)
08/14/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
Has to be able to fill me, but a smaller penis can be better than a larger one for sure.
08/16/2012
Contributor: x203 x203
How you use it !
08/16/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
5-7 is good for me, but they've proven it's more about girth for pleasure! lol.
11/27/2012
Contributor: TransGuy14 TransGuy14
doesn't matter
11/28/2012
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
I don't like 'em too big...ouch!
01/03/2013
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
I can work with all sizes except for too-large. Too-large is pretty much a dealbreaker, though.
01/03/2013
Contributor: mickey2076 mickey2076
It depends I guess,it mattered alot to my ex..and contributed to a breakup..Ive always been self concious before...but more so after
01/04/2013
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Kinda of sort of. It can be too big or too small. If it's under 4 inches in length it's too small for me. If it's over 7 inches of girth, i may take it once or twice, but it is definitely too big.
01/04/2013
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I've never met a dick I didn't like.....There was one guy who was WAYYYY too big, and I wish he had been smaller....but it was still a beautiful cock.

The smallest I've had was about 4 1/2" long and 4" around and I was totally fine with it.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Voir Voir
Yes too big and it's painful, too small and something's missing. There's not a certain size I prefer, I suppose just so long as it's not super huge because... no that isn't comfortable atall.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Awux Awux
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
So it's the age old question does the size of a guys penis really matter? Is bigger better? Or is it bad to be too big?
I don't think it's how big or small, I believe it's how you use it.
01/04/2013
Contributor: mickey2076 mickey2076
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Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
I've never met a dick I didn't like.....There was one guy who was WAYYYY too big, and I wish he had been smaller....but it was still a beautiful cock.

The smallest I've had was about 4 1/2" long and 4" around and I was totally fine with it.
Thanks,that helps..belive it or not
01/11/2013