Does size really matter?

shelovesblackmen shelovesblackmen
does size really matter?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
yes
Gunsmoke , ShadowedSeductress , r00ster , melissa1973 , Noelle , shelovesblackmen
6
no
Lioncub , KinkyKatieJames , CindyH , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , jr2012 , joolie , gorgeous
7
maybe
eri86 , *Camoprincess* , Mrs.Hellzapoppin , Girly Juice , joiedejouets , quackbuster , bratcat , KrissyNovacaine , hillys , Beautiful-Disaster , PropertyOfPotter , r00ster , leanright69 , The Vixen , kandy anjel , NekoSerenity , Rory , Martiniman , Hummingbird , mailroomorder , dv8
21
Total votes: 34 (33 voters)
Poll is closed
04/06/2013
  • Save 60% on 3 item set
  • It's Better Than Real! Buy 1 Dildo Or Anal Toy And Get 1 FRE
  • Save 60% on 3 item set for him

    • Crystal Pussy
    • Beginner silicone p-spot massager
    • Eden vibrating ring
    Save 60% on this 3 item set

    Expires on Aug, 29 at 3pm ET Terms

  • Save 60% on 3 item set for her

    • Compact Mini G
    • Single Kegel Ball
    • Waterproof nubby rabbit
    Save 60% when buying in a set

    Expires on Aug, 29 at 3pm ET Terms

  • Save 60% on 3 item set for couples

    • Passionate wrists cuffs
    • Luxury fetish passionate eye mask
    • Eden 20 function remote bullet
    Save 60% on this 3 item set

    Expires on Aug, 29 at 8pm ET Terms

  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It's politically correct to say no - but I think the answer is yes. Since I'm modestly endowed - I'm glad to have access to larger toys to satisfy my wife - without the complications of 3rd parties.
04/06/2013
Lioncub Lioncub
For me size doesn't matter it's more that they know how to use what they have.
04/06/2013
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Yes and No I mean in a partner all I really care for is that I can feel them and that they know how to work with what they have. I have been with smaller guys who pleased me better then guys with bigger penises. My ex husband had a good size penis but didn't know how to use it. So for me it really depends when it comes to a man. It also depends when it comes to toys as well, if the toys has give then I can use bigger ones if no give then they have to be on the thinner side.
04/06/2013
Mrs.Hellzapoppin Mrs.Hellzapoppin
Quote:
Originally posted by Lioncub
For me size doesn't matter it's more that they know how to use what they have.
This.
04/06/2013
Girly Juice Girly Juice
For me, it matters in the sense that a too-big penis isn't compatible with my anatomy.
04/07/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
Not to me. I've been with guys who range greatly in size. It really depends on how the guy uses what he has.
04/07/2013
CindyH CindyH
no as long as they know how to use it
04/07/2013
joiedejouets joiedejouets
Depends. I prefer girth to length generally.
04/07/2013
chicmichiw chicmichiw
No. And anyone who takes pride in it in a way that puts others down is being silly -- you got that by chance, just like everyone else. I've seen lots of guys think that just because it's big, they don't have to do anything else.
04/07/2013
quackbuster quackbuster
I'd say maybe--I don't personally care all that much, but I know that there is a particular size of toy that I prefer & some are just *way* too big. I'd never break up with anyone if they were not well-endowed, but it might not be as satisfying sexually for me as if they were a little girthier (though that's not to say I wouldn't enjoy it or they wouldn't be able to make up for it if they knew how to use it properly!)
04/07/2013
bratcat bratcat
Quote:
Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
Yes and No I mean in a partner all I really care for is that I can feel them and that they know how to work with what they have. I have been with smaller guys who pleased me better then guys with bigger penises. My ex husband had a good size penis ... More
very well put. While vaginal penetration can get me off, it depends on how well the person on the giving end knows what they're doing. I've never run into an issue with size being a factor in wether or not the sex was good, rather just how well the person knows how to use their tool.
04/07/2013
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
It does for me. I don't want or need anything huge, but I do like slightly above average. My partner is about 5.5 inches in girth and 6 inches long. That is perfect for me. Of course, it depends on whether they know how to use it or not. Size alone does not do it.
04/07/2013
hillys hillys
for me it matters a little, I know it shouldn't but i mean if i actually started to like someone it wouldn't matter.
04/07/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
maybe
04/07/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Quote:
Originally posted by Lioncub
For me size doesn't matter it's more that they know how to use what they have.
This is what I say as well.
04/07/2013
jr2012 jr2012
Maybe a little. I can definitely say there's a size where I start feeling scared! I don't want too big of a penis coming at me, I'm no porn star! On the other hand I would admit to feeling a bit sad at, say, a micropenis.

Average is where it's at!
04/07/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
It all depends. Larger isn't always better!
04/07/2013
The Vixen The Vixen
Size matters to a point, but how it's used is more important.
04/08/2013
kandy anjel kandy anjel
Quote:
Originally posted by shelovesblackmen
does size really matter?
It depends weather they know what their doing or not
04/08/2013
Rory Rory
I sad maybe but size does matter to me. Average only for me I don't like much girth or anything over 6".
04/08/2013
melissa1973 melissa1973
YES!!! It does or at least for me. My X husband was the OMG moment for me. I thought size didn't matter until AFTER we got married. A friggin hot dog was longer than him. When we did anal (I kid you NOT) we used NO lube, and I didn't even know he was in. YES size does matter (to me anyway).
04/08/2013
Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by shelovesblackmen
does size really matter?
I am a size queen, so YES..It matters to me...
04/08/2013
shelovesblackmen shelovesblackmen
Quote:
Originally posted by CindyH
no as long as they know how to use it
hi five!
04/10/2013
shelovesblackmen shelovesblackmen
for me ... too big is too much ... too small is a waste of time ..a good 7 to 9 fits me just fine.
04/10/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
For the man and who he is, personality, sincerity, how we feel about each other, no. For the ultimate stimulation internally for me, then I would have to say yes.
04/11/2013
mailroomorder mailroomorder
Quote:
Originally posted by shelovesblackmen
does size really matter?
Size does matter, if only because people have preferences. I know people who like smaller or average dicks, but I also know people that like porn-star big dicks. I don't think bigger is better.
04/11/2013
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Quote:
Originally posted by CindyH
no as long as they know how to use it
Seems most men are especially sensitive to size issues, more than women, There are those gals who prefer larger men or those who can not deal with too much length, average works for most.
I can say that some of my wife's best orgasms have happened when I had just the tip of my penis inside and SLOWLY worked it in and out until she was screaming. Probably only had 2-3 inches inside, so if you have at least 3 inches you would be good enough in that regard, size matters....
Maybe.
08/19/2013
Sincerely Yours, N Sincerely Yours, N
Size does matter. If he's huge, I don't want him coming near me haha. Small ones never bother me, but big things scare me.

... But that's just me. I'm sure that there are people that are opposite to me, and others that don't care at all.
08/19/2013
Bonesdance Bonesdance
As an average-sized guy, I definitely have some inferiority issues due to watching porn where every dick is way bigger than mine...but then my wife clearly wouldn't enjoy anything bigger than mine so I don't really have anything to worry about.

Size definitely matters, but not necessarily in the generally-understood "bigger is better" sense.
08/21/2013
Total posts: 30
Unique posters: 28