Have you ever had one of those times in your life that you can't get into it because your mind is elsewhere or you are upset over something? There are times I feel like this just for a day or two and others it can last a week or more. It could be something at work upsetting you, your kids, bills/money, family/friends, a death, and maybe even something your partner said or did. Sometimes it's really hard to shut those things out and enjoy the moment. Almost like you r body refuses to relax and be turned on. Have you ever experienced this? If so, how did you deal with it? Did you find a way to shut it out or did it ruin the moment completely?