Both are amazing and also feel completely different. The times that I have made love, my priorities were different in the moment, emotions were high and it was a completely different experience. In the same relationship, though, there are times when sex is just sex -- not that it isn't meaningful, or that love isn't behind it, but it's not always making love.
myself id rather get busy without the romance so curious if im the only one that has never made love and doesn't do the romantic stuff
I like romantic stuff, but I don't think that it is necessary for sex. I mean, we can be romantic and we can screw - they don't have to happen together. Sometimes they do, and that's great, but when it gets down to it, I'd rather just have a wild time in bed and then cuddle afterwards, ha.