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Oh there's no shame, just wondering why the persistence if something doesn't work or a partner just isn't interested?
I guess because it is possible for people to change their minds about it. I've never started a poll about anal sex (that I remember) but I engage in it. But, I resisted for literally years
. My Man reminds me that I was afraid it would hurt or that he would tear me or something. I just wish we hadn't waited as long as we did.
His gentle (but not constant) persistence made me realize "Damn, I fantasize
about this. Why aren't we doing it?" Enough to give it a try, after some training work. I think I thank him for his persistence every time we do it.