Squirting without orgasm

aussielover aussielover
So, I finally managed to make my girlfriend squirt. Amazing. I sent her home with a Lelo Ella and she's been practising with that for the last couple of weeks. Although she wasn't able to squirt, I think it got her used to the sensation of needing to pee, etc. Today I tried the "come hither" move with just one finger and she squirted all over the bed three times. This is after months of trying.

Anyway, here's my question. None of the gushing was accompanied by orgasms (she's still never had a g-spot orgasm). I assume I am doing something right if she is squirting now, but what's the key to getting her to orgasm as well? Do I need to continue the g-spot stimulation after she has squirted (she stopped me after each time she squirted today and took a rest). Any ideas would be appreciated!!
05/30/2009
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Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by aussielover
So, I finally managed to make my girlfriend squirt. Amazing. I sent her home with a Lelo Ella and she's been practising with that for the last couple of weeks. Although she wasn't able to squirt, I think it got her used to the sensation of ... More
When I first started squirting I wasn't sure I was having orgasms either. It just felt like a mild warm sensation that was pleasurable, but not at all well defined. It was really subtle. Have her keep practicing. Her orgasms will continue to strengthen the more she practices. Daily kegeling will help too.
05/31/2009
aussielover aussielover
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Originally posted by Tuesday
When I first started squirting I wasn't sure I was having orgasms either. It just felt like a mild warm sensation that was pleasurable, but not at all well defined. It was really subtle. Have her keep practicing. Her orgasms will continue to ... More
Thanks Tuesday. That's exactly how she described it. Just a mildly warm and pleasurable sensation, but certainly not orgasmic. I'll recommend the kegels. And keep practising
05/31/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I will usually squirt many times during sex if my partner is up to the challenge and if I don't orgasm with my first squirt I usually evetually do after the 3rd or 4th. It seems like I become more and more sensitive and it helps to orgasm and it is terribly strong and delicious. Doing kegels really helps! Keep it up.
05/31/2009
Liz2 Liz2
After I squirt (sometimes), during masturbation, I usually can not take any more stimulation on my g spot, as your g/f said, so I move on and come back again for a g spot orgasm.
With my b/f, I can sometimes have a g spot orgasm while he is slowing thrusting and I am clenching him. Kegels are the key, work on them!
As NS, above, pointed out, g spot orgasms are stronger. Actually they make me feel weak kneed afterwards.
06/01/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Liz2
After I squirt (sometimes), during masturbation, I usually can not take any more stimulation on my g spot, as your g/f said, so I move on and come back again for a g spot orgasm.
With my b/f, I can sometimes have a g spot orgasm while he is ... More
As Liz2 said I also require a constant and slow rhythm to orgasm and it always has to be in the right spot, if he shifts a bit we must start over. CLenching really helps to orient the penis to the right spot. Good luck!
06/01/2009
Vincent's Fantasies Vincent's Fantasies
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
As Liz2 said I also require a constant and slow rhythm to orgasm and it always has to be in the right spot, if he shifts a bit we must start over. CLenching really helps to orient the penis to the right spot. Good luck!
My wife is a squirter and she has her strongest orgasms when she is clenching as well. She also says kegels were the key to mastering g-spot orgasms.

i also found it is easier to get her to orgasm when using 2 fingers in the "come hither" motion as oppsed to 1.
06/01/2009
aussielover aussielover
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Originally posted by Vincent's Fantasies
My wife is a squirter and she has her strongest orgasms when she is clenching as well. She also says kegels were the key to mastering g-spot orgasms.

i also found it is easier to get her to orgasm when using 2 fingers in the "come ... More
Thanks again all! When you guys say "clenching", you mean squeezing on the PC muscle, right?
06/01/2009
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by aussielover
Thanks again all! When you guys say "clenching", you mean squeezing on the PC muscle, right?
That's right. Good luck!
06/02/2009
aussielover aussielover
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Originally posted by Liz2
That's right. Good luck!
Awesome, thanks. You guys really are the best source of information out there about this stuff ;-)
06/02/2009
EJ EJ
I know this post isn't new anymore, but I'm glad I came across it. I just bought an Ella and now am finding myself in the same situation as your girlfriend was. It's good to know that the kegels might help. Thanks for the post.
07/29/2011
BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
Necroing this thread. I've been squirting for the last few years and have yet to actually orgasm during ejaculation. There's no warm sensation, nothing tingly or anything. I have a lot of pain with penetration so I've yet to ever acheive any sort of pleasure from squirting.
09/19/2011
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Thats really interesting. I always thought orgasms were followed by jizz
09/19/2011
breakstoys breakstoys
Add me to the list, I often have multiple ejaculations without orgasm. It's a superb feeling in its own right, worth pursuing, but definitely isn't a climax. It's not something you see mentioned a lot, but it seems like more women need to know that you can squirt/gush even before you orgasm.
09/26/2011
Snozzberries Snozzberries
I've been having this but I kind of consider it a problem. I'm a squirter and before, all my squirts were accompanied by lovely strong glowing orgasms.

Now, not so much. I'll squirt and ... that's it. But then I don't really want to continue because it's so foreign to me, like something is wrong.

Working on why this is. I am happy to know I'm not broken, though, and that it is possible to squirt without orgasm. I really thought I'd traumatized my spot or something.
01/03/2012
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