-BillD -BillD
Yes, but then again by boyfriend is gay.
Teaser Teaser
Cheating is cheating.
babyninz babyninz
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
intercourse w/another person other than your partner is cheating PERIOD
laceypanties laceypanties
Of course.
KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
Cheating is cheating weather its with a man ,woman or a bear man pig.
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
It cheating if they don't know about it and if there are emotions involved. If they know about it and it's just about the sex I wouldn't consider it cheating.
Cheating is cheating regardless of sex. If they betray your trust or do something sexual it is cheating.
Envy Envy
Gender doesn't matter, cheating is cheating if it's not permitted.
eeep eeep
Sex is sex, doesn't matter who its with. If you didn't ok it first and/or it was kept a secret, then its cheating.
Gingy Gingy
how would it not be cheating is a lesbian/gay relationship less real than a straight one?
I find this question a bit insulting.
also i am a lesbian so of course i dont want my partner with other women!
AndroAngel AndroAngel
If he engages in sexual activity without my consent, it's cheating.
WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Anything that doesn't have the OK from your partner is cheating.
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
It depends on what the dynamics of your relationship are. If it is behind your back and you have an understanding that doesn't include sex with others then it is cheating.
Tangerine Tangerine
Spouse implies marriage which leads me to think... til death do us part. so I say yes. If your spouse is doing "something" with someone that is not you. It's cheating.
Chirple Chirple
Unless it's an open marriage.... duh ?

A gay or lesbian relationship is no less "real" or "lesser" than if they were putting dicks in vajayjays.
sarahswallows sarahswallows
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
Unless I am their too, then I am all for it lol
Swish Swish
if your partner is not ok with it, it's cheating. But my boyfriend is ok with me wanting to be with other girls, because if i get it out of my system now, or experiment to see if i like it now then when we get married he doesn't have to worry so much. its better now than during marriage
Alura Une Alura Une
If you do something sexual that you know will make someone unhappy and damages the trust in your relationship, this is cheating. I think it is that simple.
Teacookie Teacookie
sex is sex so be open and ask if you can have it with another person so long as they have medical documentation that says they are clean. Else I will be luaghing when you are at court losing in a divorce proceding because there is medical documentation that you where an idoit and cheated. STD Sexing The Diseased.
Nice to Eat you Nice to Eat you
As long as it's secretive, it cheating
MsRigby MsRigby
Gender is irrelevant. Cheating is determined by the boundaries of each relationship. If you have to lie or hide the facts it is cheating.
PeachieClean PeachieClean
I agree with what seems to be the majority. If permission isn't given it's cheating. Even if your SO thinks it's hot, it's still technically cheating. You should use your own moral compass to know if you should do something, not whether or not it'll hurt someone.
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Certainly, why would sex/gender matter?
Snozzberries Snozzberries
If we hadn't agreed upon something beforehand, then yes.
Any action we wouldn't tell each other about like that is cheating.

... but he's not into dudes so that's right out.
ehue1992 ehue1992
Yeah.... sex is sex is sex is sex is FUN! But not when you're in a relationship and your having an affair with another person.
ehue1992 ehue1992
Sex is sex (and FUN at that)...but if your spidoodling anyone but your significant other I call a cheater.
dbm6907 dbm6907
PirateofPenance PirateofPenance
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
If someone is sneaking around, they're sneaking around, and it doesn't matter what's in the pants of whoever they're sneaking around with.
C-Rae C-Rae
Cheating is cheating. The gender doesn't matter.
Mwar Mwar
I believe it's more of an emotional aspect.
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