Cheating

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Cheating

Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
If you are sneaking around it's cheating no matter what the sex of the person you are sneaking around with. If, however, you have an open relationship then whatever boundaries you set with your partner determines what constitutes cheating.
03/11/2012
Ms Sax Ms Sax
Cheating is cheating.
03/13/2012
FLUFFERKINZ FLUFFERKINZ
It's hard to define what constitutes something as cheating; some people think sex is sex and as long there is no emotion that's okay. And this poll asks if it matters if it's the same sex or not, something I have never considered.
In my opinion, if your partner is sleeping with someone else, after making the boundaries of your relationship clear then it is cheating regardless of the other person's gender.
It all depends on the boundaries set up at the beginning of the relationship, and if you haven't set any boundaries then that's probably something very important for you to do.
03/13/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
Definitely
03/14/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Swish
if your partner is not ok with it, it's cheating. But my boyfriend is ok with me wanting to be with other girls, because if i get it out of my system now, or experiment to see if i like it now then when we get married he doesn't have to worry ...
Wow I do hope that works out for you...it rarely does for anyone else. This really isn't something that you 'get out of your system' unless you have the will to make it happen that way.
03/14/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
Yes
03/14/2012
TheParrishism TheParrishism
Cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter anything else. Now if you and your partner have another arrangement, that is a little different.
03/19/2012
Mia.The.Wonder.Slut Mia.The.Wonder.Slut
The only time it's not cheating is if you're in a voluntarily open relationship.
03/19/2012
Marcianpro Marcianpro
Yes!
03/20/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
Anything you don't have permission to do is cheating. Doesn't matter who it's with.
03/20/2012
CindyH CindyH
i do think it is cheeting
03/21/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
If someone (you both have agreed to be faithful with) does something you're not down with, it's cheating. It all depends on what the agreement is.
03/21/2012
Caus Caus
If there is deception, it's cheating.
03/29/2012
Tangles Tangles
It depends on the agreement between the couple, but with no agreement, yes, obviously.
04/01/2012
TheParrishism TheParrishism
If I punch you with my left hand, but I am right handed, does it still count?
04/02/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Quote:
Originally posted by Elnoa
If your partner does not consent to you engaging in sex with another person, it is considered cheating.
Absolutely.
04/09/2012
DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Definitely, the act of cheating itself is inherently overriding of any of the partners involved.
04/09/2012
lukymami lukymami
cheating is cheating no matter who its with
04/13/2012
VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
I don't believe it has anything to do with gender, and all to do with consent and transparency.

If the relationship agreements say that a person can have sex with someone (same gender, opposite gender, etc.) then it's not cheating. If it is against the will of the other partner in the relationship, then it is cheating, regardless of the gender of those involved.
04/13/2012
Terri69 Terri69
Opposite sex, same sex, it's cheating.
04/18/2012
Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
If it's without the partner's consent, absolutely.
04/23/2012
iabicpl09 iabicpl09
Quote:
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
Its cheating to me
05/06/2012
Beck Beck
Yeah as long as that is not your set of rules its cheating.
05/06/2012
Melan!e Melan!e
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
totally. he's never expressed interest in guys, expressed NO interest in guys, rather, and i would be so hurt that he'd lie about a facet of his life that was so huge. i'd also be hurt if he didnt think he could share it with me. i share ...
I'm with you on this.

It's the secrets that makes it cheating.
05/06/2012
Rockasaurus Rockasaurus
Quote:
Originally posted by sexybutterfly
Do you consider it cheating if your spouse is with someone of the same sex?
Absolutely!
05/07/2012
theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by thebest
yes
Agree!
05/13/2012
theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by JRabbits
Cheating is cheating, there's no painting it any other way.
Agree!
05/13/2012
Chami Chami
yes it is cheating BUT some people are more ok and open with it if it is the same sex...depends on the couple i guess
05/14/2012
marshmallow marshmallow
yes. especially because i'm gay, lol.
05/30/2012
funcouple funcouple
If it A. Is something they would hide from you or B. is something more than what they would do with THEIR MOTHER then yes it is cheating.
05/31/2012
Total posts: 121
Unique posters: 111