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AnalArtist AnalArtist
I am looking into getting this but... single and have no clue where to start... any ideas? And looking to be sub...so any help would be nice. Thanks
12/21/2008
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Nashville Nashville
Quote:
Originally posted by AnalArtist
I am looking into getting this but... single and have no clue where to start... any ideas? And looking to be sub...so any help would be nice. Thanks
collarme.com <-- it's like myspace, well sort of- if myspace had a love child with rude.com and adultmatchdoctor.com.. but it's a good place to start meeting people with the same interests.

I know a lot of people that have online d/s relationships with people they've met off of that site or others.
12/21/2008
AnalArtist AnalArtist
thanks
12/21/2008
Betty Rocket Betty Rocket
Quote:
Originally posted by AnalArtist
I am looking into getting this but... single and have no clue where to start... any ideas? And looking to be sub...so any help would be nice. Thanks
FetLife.com

Another myspace for BDSM

Also, search for groups in you area via google...search BDSM and your city

Attend a munch (a meet and greet for BDSM lifestylers)
12/21/2008
Mr Guy Mr Guy
Fetlife's probably a better overall resource for BDSM. CollarMe's more like Craigslist with a paddle and a strap-on - in other words, a carnal free-for-all. With really bad grammar

Start at your own pace. Don't worry about the rules (and they will tell you a great many rules). And if anyone tells you to call him Master, chances are he's a flaming douchenozzle living in his mom's basement, with tattoos on his face and an insurmountably feathered mullet.

Munches can be fun though. Just don't sit next to the dude dressed like a Druid.
12/21/2008
Betty Rocket Betty Rocket
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr Guy
Fetlife's probably a better overall resource for BDSM. CollarMe's more like Craigslist with a paddle and a strap-on - in other words, a carnal free-for-all. With really bad grammar

Start at your own pace. Don't worry about the ...
I second that emotion.......
12/21/2008
Wordplay123 Wordplay123
Quote:
Originally posted by Betty Rocket
FetLife.com

Another myspace for BDSM

Also, search for groups in you area via google...search BDSM and your city

Attend a munch (a meet and greet for BDSM lifestylers)
Meeting with a local group is probably better than joining up on a site. You have the potential to meet a lot more playmates/people in general at a munch, than sifting through profiles on the net.
12/30/2008
Nashville Nashville
Quote:
Originally posted by Wordplay123
Meeting with a local group is probably better than joining up on a site. You have the potential to meet a lot more playmates/people in general at a munch, than sifting through profiles on the net.
I'm right there with you but being home on the computer puts you in your comfort zone. It's one thing to charge into a function full of people you don't know and a lifestyle you're just beginning to spark interest in then searching a few online fetish based website. Also, search the net for terms or common phrases- that way when you do go to an event you know what other people are talking about.

Start slow, take the speed you want, see what ya see and go from there.
12/30/2008
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
There are sites like bondage.com, too. I am also apart of a few BDSM groups on Myspace. The profile sites WILL have a lot of spam but the forums (at least on B.com) can also be pretty helpful. There used to be a lot of websites out there with BDSM information but, as the internet goes, I need to refresh my bookmarks.

I would suggest some reading. Eden carries some books here help. I haven't yet picked up s&M 101 but it is highly recommended.
12/30/2008
briluminary briluminary
Light spanking is a good place to start!
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