Are you a giver, taker, or both during sex?

LoveX LoveX
Do you usually give more, receive more, or is it pretty even between you and your partner in the sack?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Giver
9  (20%)
Taker
3  (7%)
Both pretty equally
30  (67%)
Other (explain)
3  (7%)
Total votes: 45
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04/21/2013
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LoveX LoveX
We are pretty equal on give & take, BUT he usually starts things off.
04/21/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm the giver. Always have been, probably always will be.
04/21/2013
Rossie Rossie
We're pretty equal, but sometimes he gives more than I do.
04/21/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Both. I love to please and be pleased.
04/21/2013
Silverwinds Silverwinds
He really enjoys giving, more than I do, so I let him do it more. I still manage to pin him down for hickeys and blowjobs lol.
04/21/2013
Hentialover Hentialover
Quote:
Originally posted by LoveX
Do you usually give more, receive more, or is it pretty even between you and your partner in the sack?
I love to give, because it's nice to see my lovers reactions to what I do, but it's really nice to lay back, relax, and enjoy my time. Haha
04/21/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Mostly a giver - but I have my chances to be the recipient. Maybe 75-25 giver.
04/21/2013
Bubba29 Bubba29
i am happy to be a giver but would also like to be a taker. unfortunately my wife is not much of a giver. so i give and enjoy it.
04/21/2013
bratcat bratcat
I think i'd consider myself as more of a giver, only because i usually initiate foreplay and give more to my partner. However it's still pretty equal when it comes to sex.
04/21/2013
travelnurse travelnurse
I would say both, but I really love having oral performed on me
04/21/2013
ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
Mostly a taker.
04/21/2013
CS2012 CS2012
I am more of a giver.
04/21/2013
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
We're pretty equal, but sometimes he gives more than I do.
Ditto this. ^^

I think we're the same way. If I feel like I did more "taking" during a session, I make sure to go out of my way the next time to do some extra giving.
04/21/2013
chicmichiw chicmichiw
Both! But it's a little polarized. There are times I like to have all the attention on me, throughout the entire encounter, or I'm in to giving the entire time.
04/21/2013
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I'm usually more of a giver but that doesn't mean I'm opposed to taking!
04/21/2013
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
I am more of a giver but my hunny does enjoy giving too, so we are about equal.
04/21/2013
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by LoveX
Do you usually give more, receive more, or is it pretty even between you and your partner in the sack?
We are pretty equal when it comes to giving and receiving, I think because we both enjoy it so much
04/21/2013
lovelyzombie lovelyzombie
Both
04/21/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Both, it's fun to give and to receive
04/21/2013
LAndJ LAndJ
He tends to do more, but I finish typically.
04/21/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Depends.
04/22/2013
spiced spiced
My wife and I are both naturally givers. I enjoy giving AND I enjoy receiving, knowing how much she's enjoying the giving. It's pretty awesome.
04/22/2013
doowop doowop
A giver and a taker.
04/22/2013
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I would say its about a 75% taker to 25% giver I got lucky and ended up with a man who focuses on pleasing me then worrying about me pleasing him. We are both satisfied with our sex life, he prefers giving when I try to give he tells me he is focusing on me an his ultimate goal is to know I am satisfied. Most of his pleasure comes from penetrative sex. He gets teasing oral here and there
04/22/2013
lilyflower lilyflower
I tend to give more than I receive, but I usually like it that way.
04/22/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
I honestly hope I give as much as I take. I know I do my best.
04/22/2013
Creepellah Creepellah
both equally.
04/22/2013
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by LoveX
Do you usually give more, receive more, or is it pretty even between you and your partner in the sack?
I'd say kind of equal, except he's doing the... ahem... giving, if you know what I'm saying -- in the sense of who's being penetrated, I'm "receiving," but it's usually pretty equal as far as both of us giving and receiving pleasure.
04/22/2013
Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Both pretty equally and some days we switch it up to where it is just about the one person. =)
04/22/2013
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