I would say its about a 75% taker to 25% giver I got lucky and ended up with a man who focuses on pleasing me then worrying about me pleasing him. We are both satisfied with our sex life, he prefers giving when I try to give he tells me he is focusing on me an his ultimate goal is to know I am satisfied. Most of his pleasure comes from penetrative sex. He gets teasing oral here and there
Do you usually give more, receive more, or is it pretty even between you and your partner in the sack?
I'd say kind of equal, except he's doing the... ahem... giving, if you know what I'm saying -- in the sense of who's being penetrated, I'm "receiving," but it's usually pretty equal as far as both of us giving and receiving pleasure.