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Why or why not?
Not really.. As I age I have learned that it is time for me to stop trying to please everyone in my family esp. my parents. I grew up in a very dysfunctional family and being an adult I don't have the time to deal with all the drama and bs that they created over the years. Because of their mistakes, I have to live with the emotional scares they have placed upon me as an adult, and it wasn't fair for them to put their kids in the middle. So, I speak to both parents but as for being close to either of them. They are divorced and still have issues dealing with their past and I don't care to hear about it anymore.. So, lesson to all those parents who are married and hating their relationship.. Get out of it, it isn't fair to let your kids live and grow up in a house full of lies, fighting, and hate.. The whole till death doesn't apply when kids emotional well being is at stake..