Dating and exclusivity

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If you're dating (hypothetically if you're not dating currently), and start seeing someone you'd like to pursue a relationship with, do you stop dating others, or wait until its official?
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JessCee, amandaco2011, Subbi, Fun with Dick & Jane, wrmbreze, kendra30752, poetprincess, BlooJay, Undead, SilverMinxxx, darthkitt3n
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Tart, xoflxokcxo
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biancajames, padmeamidala, Tart, JR, Rayne Millaray, hiroshiro
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biancajames, Ryuson, Zombirella, Jon S, wetone123, Tart, Beck, amandaco2011, eggiweg, indiglo, Eliyahu, GS28, JR, winterseve, unfulfilled, dv8, Lummox, BlooJay, darthkitt3n
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Superbals
Total votes: 39 (32 voters)
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Feb 13, 9:46 am
biancajames biancajames
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Originally posted by biancajames
If you're dating (hypothetically if you're not dating currently), and start seeing someone you'd like to pursue a relationship with, do you stop dating others, or wait until its official?
Struggling with this right now!
Feb 13, 9:48 am
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I've never serial dated to begin with. I tend to do it the same way as manuscript publishing - wait until there's a response before submitting to another humiliation.
Feb 13, 10:03 am
Zombirella Zombirella
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Originally posted by biancajames
If you're dating (hypothetically if you're not dating currently), and start seeing someone you'd like to pursue a relationship with, do you stop dating others, or wait until its official?
When I'm with someone, I'm with them ONLY.
Feb 13, 10:49 am
Tart Tart
I'm one huge pile of confusion. I haven't even dated in forever. I might date other people, depending on the situation. I am usually monogamous, but if I decide that I can get different experiences with different people, I will date polyamorously.
Feb 13, 11:15 am
biancajames biancajames
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Originally posted by Zombirella
When I'm with someone, I'm with them ONLY.
This is assuming you haven't established an exclusive relationship yet.
Feb 13, 11:15 am
Beck Beck
I am usually in a monogamous relationship, but have done poly before. It depends on what the other person wants. I am open to both, so if my partner at that moment, didn't want to share than I am monogamous.
Feb 13, 11:16 am
amandaco2011 amandaco2011
I like to date just one at a time because I look for a monogamous relationship. Dating more people gets messy.
Feb 13, 11:19 am
eggiweg eggiweg
My girlfriend and I have been together for 13 years... we're mostly monogamous (monogamish, lol)
Feb 13, 11:48 am
indiglo indiglo
I am monogamous by nature, so if I start dating someone, you can guarantee I'm not dating anyone else. It's funny, with my partner, he actually asked me if I would be exclusive with him about 2 months in. I laughed, and said "Sure, because I already am." LOL
Feb 13, 11:49 am
Subbi Subbi
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Originally posted by indiglo
I am monogamous by nature, so if I start dating someone, you can guarantee I'm not dating anyone else. It's funny, with my partner, he actually asked me if I would be exclusive with him about 2 months in. I laughed, and said "Sure, because I ... More
This lol
Feb 13, 11:54 am
xoflxokcxo xoflxokcxo
If nothing is official, and they know about each other, I don't see why it would be a problem.
Feb 13, 8:42 pm
unfulfilled unfulfilled
That's cute indiglo. I'm usually monogamous.
Feb 14, 9:49 am
hiroshiro hiroshiro
Oh gosh, I don't know... my bf and I are currently talking about opening our relationship and I have a date for dinner this week with a guy I've been flirting with.
Feb 20, 11:49 pm
kendra30752 kendra30752
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Originally posted by biancajames
If you're dating (hypothetically if you're not dating currently), and start seeing someone you'd like to pursue a relationship with, do you stop dating others, or wait until its official?
I am in a relationship, but before, if I ever started seeing someone often I never, ever still dated or seen others. Not right.
Feb 20, 11:55 pm
poetprincess poetprincess
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Originally posted by biancajames
If you're dating (hypothetically if you're not dating currently), and start seeing someone you'd like to pursue a relationship with, do you stop dating others, or wait until its official?
I think its wrong to have any thoughts of being with someone other then the person you are with, you should tell them so it wont hurt them later..
Feb 20, 11:58 pm
BlooJay BlooJay
I stop dating other people. I like to be in a monogamous relationship.
Feb 21, 12:27 am
Undead Undead
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Originally posted by biancajames
If you're dating (hypothetically if you're not dating currently), and start seeing someone you'd like to pursue a relationship with, do you stop dating others, or wait until its official?
One at a time!
Feb 21, 12:59 am
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
Yea, I date one person at a time. Makes things less complicated that way.
Feb 21, 1:01 am
Superbals Superbals
married for far too long lol
Feb 21, 4:12 am
Total posts: 20
Unique posters: 18