i think the duggers need to stop, period. seriously. even when they make comments to the kids like "so is your mom pregnant again?" their eyes get wide & they sort of freeze for a sec, like, "oh, dear god, i hope not." personally, i think more than 5 is a lot. actually, i think 5 is a little excessive. but if you can take care of them, then that's all that really counts. especially since i know some people end up w/ like octupletes. i actually have a friend who is super catholic (i am too, but i still believe in condoms & birth control), & she's waiting till marriage to have sex (as am i, only not for religious reasons). then when she gets married, she said she's not going to use condoms or birth control, ever. she said the only way she would ever take birth control is for medical reasons. i told her good luck w/ that & her future million babies.