A lot, really.
When I got accepted to a very good University. I had worked hard and was very proud.
When My Man proposed to me (in a sleazy motel, where we were shacking up) I wouldn't let myself cry and I ended up with such severe muscle spasms in my neck and back from stifling cry that I was bedridden for an entire day and in pain for days. Dumb me, trying to control my emotions.
When I graduated from said University with Honors.
When My Man and I bought our first house and I finally moved in full time.
When we found out I was expecting our first baby.
When we got married. Beautiful and honest day.
When our babies were born.
When I got my advanced degree and certification to do my Life's Work.
When we rekindled our sex life. It wasn't something we acknowledged, but about 5 years ago, we started paying more attention to each other and to our love and our sex together. It has been one of the most rewarding times of my life.