Women, do you have a "friend" that your man is not aware of and have no intentions of telling him about?

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Women, do you have a "friend" that your man is not aware of and have no intentions of telling him about?

misterazor misterazor
do you have a secret friend? someone you are not having an affair with, but you know that your man might be threatened by because, internally, you kinda want the guy and are worried that it would be obvious?
01/15/2013
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Bleu Bleu
Used to but ended the friendship because it seemed really toxic for the relationship. If you have to hide a friend from your SO, it just makes it so you're basically lying and that alone can damage a relationship.
01/15/2013
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
do you have a secret friend? someone you are not having an affair with, but you know that your man might be threatened by because, internally, you kinda want the guy and are worried that it would be obvious?
No. I wouldn't hide a friendship even if my partner didn't like them.
01/15/2013
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by Bleu
Used to but ended the friendship because it seemed really toxic for the relationship. If you have to hide a friend from your SO, it just makes it so you're basically lying and that alone can damage a relationship.
Very well stated. That's my take on it as well.

I have no secret friends, though my man doesn't necessarily know every single person I spend time with personally, he knows their names and their basic info.
01/15/2013
js250 js250
No I didn't. I did have a couple relatives that I was closer to than he assumed, though--just in case I needed a place to go when it ended.
01/15/2013
sktb0007 sktb0007
No I don't.
01/15/2013
shorejen9 shorejen9
No I don't. I don't hide things from my husband especially things that would ruin us.
01/15/2013
Living Doll Living Doll
No. I don't sneak around or hide anything from my partner.
01/15/2013
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Nope. Husband and I are very close and I wouldn't hide anything.
01/15/2013
Ansley Ansley
Nope. We've played those games and it's definitely a game.
01/15/2013
Cat E. Cat E.
Yes.
01/15/2013
Kristi :) Kristi :)
Yes.
01/15/2013
Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
No. I don't do that to my husband. He knows all my friends inside and out, and has even had great conversations with them XD. If one of my exes contacted me then I would tell my husband. I don't hide a thing from that man. Well, cept when I'm planning something. That's the only thing I ever hide from him.
01/15/2013
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
do you have a secret friend? someone you are not having an affair with, but you know that your man might be threatened by because, internally, you kinda want the guy and are worried that it would be obvious?
When I was in a relationship I had a few of those friends, my boyfriend was really jealous so I didn't feel the need to start arguments over nothing
01/15/2013
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I keep no secrets. I'd rather break up than lie behind my partner's back.

eta: I'm not an angel either. I *do* have fantasies about men, but they stay in my head. I would never cheat.
01/17/2013
Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Nah. No reason to. There are people I'm friends with that he hasn't met, but no 'secret' friends. I'm just an awesome girlfriend.
01/17/2013
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