How long will you wait to have sex?

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How long will you wait to have sex?

link82 link82
When you really like someone you are dating, and not just looking for a one-night-stand, how long do you generally wait before sleeping with them?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
First night
6  (8%)
Within the first 3 days
Within the first week
7  (10%)
After 2 - 3 weeks
18  (25%)
1 month
2  (3%)
More than 1 month
30  (42%)
Till we are married
8  (11%)
Total votes: 71
Poll is closed
04/09/2011
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KennyMister KennyMister
It depends on the person and how fast you make a connection and form trust. I didn't with one of my exs until 4 or 5 months together but with my current gf it just clicked and we did after a month of dateing.
04/09/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
usually a while as in months but with current bf was on first day
04/09/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
When you really like someone you are dating, and not just looking for a one-night-stand, how long do you generally wait before sleeping with them?
I usually know within about a month whether I am going to sleep with someone or not
04/09/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I would wait more than a month to make sure the relationship is solid and not just about sex.
04/09/2011
indiglo indiglo
I don't really have a hard and fast rule on this. I really am flexible, and I can adapt to what feels comfortable with that particular person/relationship. In some relationships I've waited months, but in my current relationship it was the first night we met.
04/09/2011
married with children married with children
if I was dating again, I would wait until I knew the person pretty well.
04/10/2011
barrettbn2 barrettbn2
It just happens when it happens...when the time is right!
04/10/2011
Dusk Dusk
Well, I had to vote for "more than one month" because my current partner and I waited a year and a half. However, we had originally planned to wait until marriage and he was my first, so....yeah. I guess I wait until I could see myself marrying that person in the future.
04/12/2011
Willis2011 Willis2011
It takes a couple of weeks
04/13/2011
Howells Howells
I'd say sooner the better because if something is wrong with the other party or they are just not for you 'that way' then you are wasting your time. First time is kinda overrated. I wouldn't wait too long anymore. There was a time when I was younger and thought if I met a virgin I'd train her for a year or as long as she wants and when she's ready. But after the age of 20 there are not many virgins running around, and sex very soon is an everyday thing nowadays. At least in the subculture where I'm from we wouldn't wait months..
05/03/2011
MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
I dont believe in waiting until marriage but i dont believe in screwing within the first few weeks. It depends on the person and how much i trust them and after i get the results of their std records. srry but i dont take chances!
05/03/2011
ud328 ud328
As a general rule it takes 2-3 dates before the physical happens. Just keeps things easier while still havin' fun.
05/03/2011
ScottA ScottA
I was in the last selection.
05/03/2011
REDRUM REDRUM
It takes awhile for me to trust someone. So I'd probably wait a month or more. At least until I feel comfortable with them.
05/03/2011
Loveless Loveless
I made my fiancee wait nearly 7 months before anything (and I mean anything) happened (not on purpose...I was just a platinum vCard holder). I made my exes wait a few weeks, so I guess if I was to meet someone new, it would take maybe a few weeks.
05/09/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
For someone I'm serious about, I'd wait at least 3 - 4 weeks. I'm not going to give it up too soon.
05/09/2011
Lily Night Lily Night
There should be an 'other' category for this poll because I would choose something much longer. My boyfriend and I waited until almost a year after we had started dating. I think that was right for us, but we were also both virgins so that made things a bit more complex, I suppose. We both wanted to make sure we were in love before we made that kind of connection
05/09/2011
Dusk Dusk
Quote:
Originally posted by Lily Night
There should be an 'other' category for this poll because I would choose something much longer. My boyfriend and I waited until almost a year after we had started dating. I think that was right for us, but we were also both virgins so that ...
I definitely thing it's a different dynamic when you're both virgins; that was what happened with my current partner and I, we wanted to wait until it was the right time and we felt the connection.
05/11/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
When you really like someone you are dating, and not just looking for a one-night-stand, how long do you generally wait before sleeping with them?
Maybe after 2 weeks.
05/12/2011
Pablo F Lleras Pablo F Lleras
my girlfriend and i had the illusion of waiting till marriage... that did not work out very well once we were alone for a min lol, but we did hold off for two year and a half so it was still great to have been with her and gotten to know her so well before then.
05/25/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
I'd wait until I got to know them and felt comfortable. Probably within a couple of weeks.
12/28/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
When you really like someone you are dating, and not just looking for a one-night-stand, how long do you generally wait before sleeping with them?
Well... I have done one night stands for just sex.... I have done one night stands with dates that I decided were never going to work but they were hot enough I wanted to fuck. I have had boyfriends in the past who had to wait from a week to a month to get it. My husband when we were dating had to wait almost three months - and that was for anything but a kiss. I even let him sleep over in my bed while i wore nothing or a thong at best and nothing for him till the three month give-up. LOL I think he still has night terror from that wait.
12/28/2011
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
We waited a couple of years and thought that it was worth it.
12/28/2011
Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
Bout a month or longer
12/28/2011
Eucaly Eucaly
You've really got five choices for a month or less and then if it's more than a month its until you're married?! That's not a very useful range of choices. Most people I know wait 3-6 months.
12/28/2011
Apirka Apirka
I need an "Other" option on this one. I think all my relationships started after we had already had casual sex... I wanted to keep things as Friends With Benefits but they pursued a relationship.
03/21/2012
sexynola sexynola
I guess it depends on the guy and the relationship as well..
03/21/2012
Callisto Callisto
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
When you really like someone you are dating, and not just looking for a one-night-stand, how long do you generally wait before sleeping with them?
2-3 weeks.. maybe less.. not really sure.
04/02/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Hmm... I don't have a rule about it. But, if it goes in that direction, it happens.
04/02/2012
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