New girl = too big??? (dream scenario for most)

ZackZit ZackZit
I was with my girlfriend last night that I've been dating for 6 months now and we finally decided to have sex. She told me I was actually too thick for her and it took a good 15-20 minutes to "warm her up". Now I always thought I was average or perhaps a little below but I've only been in one other long-term relationship (4 years) so I can't really judge if this is true or not.

So ladies is 6" 1/2 long 5" thick too big for the average gal?
12/29/2012
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Chilipepper Chilipepper
Just as you guys have different girths, we have different interior diameters, too; you're not the only ones who have to be primed for action to happen.
12/29/2012
indiglo indiglo
Chilipepper is right. Some women can't insert toys/penises that are 1.5" in diameter (which is smaller than you), while other women prefer toys/penises that are 1.75" or even 2" in diameter (which is bigger than you).

Every woman's body is different, and her comfort zone is in a different place. The important thing is to know your partner and take good care to do what she likes!
12/29/2012
ZackZit ZackZit
I guess the next question is over time will it be easier for her to "accept" a size larger than she is fit for without needing tons of foreplay? I must admit I never really put much thought since I was roughly perfect for my last gf in size, even random public sex (such as a quickie in the car) required almost zero preparation if she was the one that desired it (aka already aroused). I have no problems with foreplay mind you but some moments it's not always possible when both parties just want a quick romp.


Appreciate the replies btw This is the only other woman I have had a sexual encounters with so the "uniqueness" of different bodies is still new to me.
12/29/2012
Beck Beck
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Originally posted by ZackZit
I guess the next question is over time will it be easier for her to "accept" a size larger than she is fit for without needing tons of foreplay? I must admit I never really put much thought since I was roughly perfect for my last gf in ... More
The vagina can be different daily too. Some days the body is well hydrated, so it personally lubes itself nicely to accept a partner. Arousal level also plays a part. Another thing that might have been part of the issue was the stress of it being the first time.

In theory, she should become more relaxed and aroused more easily with you, therefore making penetration easier. However, her body could always be like that.

Be sure to tell her to stay properly hydrated that way she has enough personal lube. Foreplay isn't the only thing that is arousing. So, if you are going for a quickie...you'll need to figure out a turn on that isn't foreplay. That way she is aroused enough to accept you.
12/30/2012
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