I put other, but that seems so vague and mysterious. I should explain. We're in a committed, monogamous relationship (living together), so I don't think that qualifies as dating, but we aren't married and have no real plans to be. It's not that we don't love each other or want to spend the rest of our lives together (we're certainly planning for it), we just don't see a lot of point in getting married. That is not at all to suggest that marriage is unimportant or stupid - both of us are firmly in support of gay marriage rights for lots of big reasons, (health care and legal issues just to name a few), but for us? We'll probably get married after we have a house but before we have any kids.