Anyone here interested in Cuckold type fantasies?

StunningView StunningView
Hi--

I'm just wondering if anyone here has done any cuckold things. When guys hit on my girlfriend I get very aroused, and the thought of my girlfriend enjoying another man makes me very horny. She is a sexy little asian girl and I just don't know why I have the fantasy but I do. How about you girls too--Do you ever want to cuckold your boyfriend? Thoughts?
12/17/2010
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It's an interesting fantasy but I could never actually do it - nor my wife.
12/17/2010
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
No. Our relation is based on mutual respect.
12/18/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
No. Never. I get aroused by thinking of my partner with ME, not other people. That will never make sense to me. Him being hit on is a compliment of course, but that is where it ends.
12/18/2010
Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by UnknownGirl
No. Our relation is based on mutual respect.
I kinda take a bit of offense to this. If the two choose to mutually partake in a fetish together, I wouldn't say that either partner disrespects the other. It's just a sexual fetish they are choosing to do together. Cuckolding is done for the sexual enjoyment of both partners, and in a fetish aspect, is always discussed beforehand. If I choose to hit the boyfriend with a paddle, it's due our mutual enjoyment of the activity, and I don't respect him any less. No offense made, but I just wanted to clear up that, just because it seems demeaning to one person doesn't mean that it is on an emotional level.

As for the two of us, "meh". I'd have enjoyment flirting in front of him and flaunting it and possibly kissing, but due to my severe worries about STDs, I'd never take it to sex itself. Also, I don't think it's a kink of his, so it wouldn't be something we'd pursue.
12/18/2010
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
You can take all the offense you'd like. The cuckold fetish involves victimizing and emasculating the male. Doesn't seem like there's a whole lot of respect going on in that scenario.
12/18/2010
StunningView StunningView
If I think it's hot and she gets to have her cake and eat it too why not? Seems like the best of both worlds for both of us.
12/18/2010
Lucidity Lucidity
Seems like something you should sit down and discuss with your partner.
12/18/2010
Sir Sir
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Originally posted by UnknownGirl
You can take all the offense you'd like. The cuckold fetish involves victimizing and emasculating the male. Doesn't seem like there's a whole lot of respect going on in that scenario.
It may not seem like there is respect, but if the two enjoy it, then there is respect for the other's wishes and interests. Now, if it's done out of spite, sure, it's not respectful. But the maker of this thread specifically stated that they enjoy it, being the male. So I see no disrespect there! Seems like they're just having a good time!
12/18/2010
Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Sir
It may not seem like there is respect, but if the two enjoy it, then there is respect for the other's wishes and interests. Now, if it's done out of spite, sure, it's not respectful. But the maker of this thread specifically stated that ... More
If it's done out of spite, it's not a fetish; it's bordering on emotional abuse. After all, then it's not consensual.

If it's done with the consent of both partners, how in the world could it be victimizing? Bondage? Victimizing? Spanking? More victimizing, right? No. If it's done consensually, it's a sexual kink where both partners respect one another enough to participate and trust each other enough to experiment outside the norm.
12/18/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It seems to me just a specialized area of BDSM.

From the porn I've seen Cuckold play is far less painful and humiliating than 90% of the BDSM stuff out there. Loos like a combination of sloppy-seconds and voyeurism - rather tame compared to BDSM.

I think everyone agrees - if it's consensual there's nothing wrong with it.
12/18/2010
trios trios
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Originally posted by StunningView
Hi--

I'm just wondering if anyone here has done any cuckold things. When guys hit on my girlfriend I get very aroused, and the thought of my girlfriend enjoying another man makes me very horny. She is a sexy little asian girl and I just ... More
(Un)fortunately we have similar turn ons. For some reason, imagining my wife with a guy that really turns her on is a turn on for me. (For her it would be Johnny Depp or that Indian guy from the Twilight series).

This would never be reality, as we are married and take our wedding vows seriously, but anyway the thought of it is a turn on for me. I wouldn't necessarily call it 'cuckold' for me, because that denotes a 'control thing' and the guy (me) just watches. Instead I fantasize a threesome and am involved, and she would want him and be involved in the selection process.
12/18/2010
Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Sir
It may not seem like there is respect, but if the two enjoy it, then there is respect for the other's wishes and interests. Now, if it's done out of spite, sure, it's not respectful. But the maker of this thread specifically stated that ... More
Agreed!
12/18/2010
Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Kayla
If it's done out of spite, it's not a fetish; it's bordering on emotional abuse. After all, then it's not consensual.

If it's done with the consent of both partners, how in the world could it be victimizing? Bondage? ... More
I absolutely agree, and I think this is where a lot of people misunderstand a lot of different kinky things. Just because something is out of the norm does not make it wrong and something that might seem disrespectful isn't if it's mutually enjoyed by both partners. I think sometimes people need to remember the whole "My kink is not your kink, but your kink is ok" thing.
12/18/2010
KnK KnK
I'm not against the idea, but I'm not sure if I would ever do it to be honest
12/18/2010
cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
Sounds like an interesting fantasy. If it's something you want to act out, I'd talk to the girlfriend and see how she feels about it. Then go for it.

If not, a fantasy's just a fantasy, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Personally, I've had this sort of fantasy about my boyfriend, but it's just been a fantasy. If it actually happened, I don't know how I'd handle that. But it all depends on what you're comfortable with.
06/28/2012
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