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Redboxbaby
This exactly! A VERY HARD LIMIT! He can not even wrap his brain around imagining or thinking about it.
My husband would have my head examined if I told him this turned me on and wanted him to do it for me.
My husband started out that way. I asked him what the difference was between two women getting together (which we had done MANY, MANY times) and two men getting together and he couldn't really differientate between the two. It opened up a natural dialogue and series of discussions over the course of four years. It's been eye-opening and he stated last weekend that he had a desire to do it again, but didn't want to hurt me by suggesting it. We talked about it some more and decided on a compromise!
It wasn't something I was pushing for or even really wanted to take place in real life because I didn't know what the reality of it would be... But I felt off-kilter knowing I knew the pleasure of same-sex sex and he didn't.